Has anyone else heard of this or maybe observed this at church?
Essentially, a woman lives a life of promiscuity, and as she begins to reach her late twenties to thirties, she realizes she is running out of time to find a husband. All the men she slept with had no interest in commitment, so she goes to the one place where the men still value marriage and are told to completely disregard the past - the church. She becomes a "born-again virgin" (I laughed when I heard this is a thing), basically an attempt to help the sucker "good guy" Christian cope with having a promiscuous wife by saying the past is irrelevant and she is now a pure virgin girl.
This woman goes over how women outnumber men in most churches and how these women love the church because the men are taught to be beta, being told that promiscuous women are victims and need to be taken as wives by Christian men.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WhwgB-dT7Aw
What do you think of this? Have you personally seen this play out in church?
I did see some interesting studies on virginity and divorce - basically virgin brides have, by far, the lowest divorce rate, irrespective of religious views. However, the Christian divorce rate is practically the same as secularists/atheists. The reason being is that the so called Christians don't actually follow the Bible and live lives indistinguishable from the worldly crowd, becoming just as broken as everyone else and hence undesirable for marriage (explains why we have an unprecedented divorce rate of nearly 50% in the West which corresponds almost perfectly with the 1960's sexual revolution).
I always see people quick to jump to the concept of grace, revealing their lack of understanding of what grace means. If a sinner is truly repentant, the sin is forgiven - by no means does this nullify the worldly consequences of your sin (e.g., if you lived a life of smoking and drugs but suddenly repent, good on you, but your organs are still likely irreversibly damaged). In the case of sleeping around, a woman loses her ability to pair-bond and is therefore broken for the purposes of marriage.
I realize this is a politically incorrect thing to talk about now - women don't want to be seen as broken sluts, and men don't want to think of their wife as a broken slut, but I feel like this needs to be formally addressed in the church.
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