Are there any proposal or marriage traditions that you might avoid because they are do not hold up under biblical, or red pill, wisdom?
Married RPCers, if you had an opportunity to go though the process of engagement and marriage, what would you differently this time?
Different cultural contexts will elicit different answers, so please share any cultural differences too.
In my opinion, an example of a tradition that is not biblically justified is proposing by bending on one knee. The tradition very likely originates from the medieval period, with a direct link to the same action a knight would perform to submit himself before authority. Jesus does not submit to his Church, therefore I believe this particular gesture of proposal is not a good reflection of Christ and his Church in the lives of believers.
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