Question about my youth group

Red-Curious · 2020-04-27T05:37:06+00:00

Your story is very inconsistent in the comments and you come off as very whiny. Worry less about what he thinks and does and fix your whininess and ability to self-evaluate.

We're here to help YOU get your life figured out. Not to be your source of emotional validation when someone doesn't do things your way. Yes, the mainstream church is blue pill. That's a fact of life. Deal with it and work toward changing it.

SkimTheDross · 2020-04-27T10:12:08+00:00

You have some red pill knowledge but still have a big need for validation seeking. Thus, you look to red knight another man, a man in a position of authority to you nonetheless.

This will not work out as you expect or hope.

You’re just looking for a reason to hear yourself talk and pump your ego.

Perhaps, some day in the distant future, you’ll red pill a close friend that has a rough relationship and is ready to be unplugged.

There’s a lot of lifting and reading ahead of you before those days.

Work on you. Set an example.

Billy_King · 2020-04-27T03:19:29+00:00

No, I wouldn’t “confront” him. You’re still pretty young and it would be considered disrespectful.

Can you explain why you say he is a hypocrite? What feminine values does he teach to men?

I would talk to another male figure(s) in the ministry and perhaps your father, and have a discussion about your struggle with this guys teaching, and see what he says.

After that, if you don’t feel like you can reconcile, then frankly it isn’t your duty to stay at that youth group if you don’t feel like you are being spiritually fed there. You should be involved with a youth group though.

OsmiumZulu · 2020-04-27T03:49:22+00:00

Are you a student or another staff member?

PrincepsOmni · 2020-04-27T04:42:27+00:00

What kind of feminine values is he teaching men?

RPwisdom · 2020-04-27T08:44:11+00:00

I was once like you. I felt anger towards betas and viewed the world as alpha and beta

But as time goes on you begin to embody the knowledge in your actions instead of your thoughts. You pay no mind to other “betas” (quotes because you don’t mentally label anyone as beta you know on a deep level).

After internalizing this you live your life and move forth paying 0 attention to what is alpha and what is beta

Has anyone here had the same experience as I?

Torn4_025 · 2020-04-28T06:16:34+00:00

Been reading this post and the comments wondering how this isn't removed for low effort. I mean really OP calling the youth pastor a beta for getting on your case is kind of a joke. That pastor is blue pilled like every normal guy out there. Pointing that out isn't going to hand you a exposing betas metal to pin on your wall.

Does it suck every church out there in the west teaches feminine hail all women because men are horny mutts that should beg and fetch on command like good little boy's. Yes it does because this is a dreadful culture. Being angry is natural to some extent, but understand God wants you to act in love. There is a time for soft words and firm ones. However considering the pastor is the authority figure over you part of his job is to rebuke those disrespecting him. If you start off ranting about him being a hypocrite or beta to women the pastor will not care to understand you. He will just assume you are a unruly guy looking to stir up trouble.

You need to learn and master emotional control before correcting others especially one that has authority over you. Read the entire sidebar and put it all into practice.

Title	Question about my youth group
Author	Strict-Paper
Upvotes	16
Comments	28
Date	April 27, 2020 3:08 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RPChristians
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