Lurker, first time poster.

The reason I ask this is because I’ve taken a look back at my interactions and I see many mistakes I’ve made since reading RP material - whether it be a friendship, LTR, or regular encounters.

I have many questions and could’ve placed this in asktrp, but I was looking for a Christian perspective.

After living your whole life with the BP lens (I’m 25) and treating females as if they are “soft and gentle” humans, being the typical nice guy; I am confused on how to treat females now, specifically, the ones you may engage in an LTR with.

  • How do you communicate with them in an assertive yet inviting way?

  • What are some do’s and dont’s?

If doing exactly what TRP says to do in regards to building yourself to the top 5-10% of men (physically, mentally, financially, socially, spiritually) - how do you not get outcasted if the other 95% of people around you are stuck in their blue pill state of mind?

I’m at the point where I can’t relate to others since I see life differently now. I see it for what it is now, and I feel as if I’ve arrived somewhere halfway. How do you all lead a red pill life and keep your sanity seeing everything?

I know of frame, lifting, sidebar, books, and this is all in progress at the moment. I believe RP was revealed to me at this time for a purpose but not sure why or what to do with it.

Edit: Reworded and added some things. Botched this post after re-reading it lol. Never done one of these so my b lol.