I'm a 25-year-old single male. I'm not currently dating or looking, but I'm slowly getting back into being open after almost being married 2 years ago and getting out of a serious (spiritually and emotionally not physically) but short relationship earlier this year. So... I had an interesting dream last night. I don't know if any of you have seen those love is blind or love at first sight reality shows but last night I was in one of them - in my dreams. We were going to have to marry whoever we were paired up with (pairing was out of our control) and there were two girls that were "attractive" and three that weren't what society would consider at their level just based on appearance. All the guys (me included) were about to be paired up to who we were either going to have to marry or reject and we were all freaking out about who we were going to get. I didn't get to see the end of the dream but it made me realize something that I've always kind of knew but never really gave deep thought - I'm still very much wrapped up in the appearance of the women I go for or consider wife material. I know how dangerous this is, and honestly would like to be at a place where that isn't true, but it's my nagging reality. Any advice on getting over this and keeping my options honest?
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