Let's take a hypothetical male who is a 5-7 of a 10 on his SMV. He clearly can't get into the top 20% of the American market in general - yes there are always unique opportunities, but in general he won't be in that top group which gets all the female attention. Even the Red Man Group last week or so mentioned this, it's always best for a man to be slighly more valuable than the woman (i.e. his value 7 then hers 6) - for the chance of a long term satisfying relationship (this makes sense to me but I don't know if it's an absolute truth). Regardless, our hypothetical male can find some success with women but not the ones he may want.

However, you move this male to a place like Mexico, South America, or even South East Asia and suddenly his 5-7 jumps to a 7-9 or so. And suddenly he has entered that top 10-20% and has all the selection.

I've heard many say, Oh well they just want you for (insert whatever - money, citizen status, etc). I.e. they want to use you for something. Wait? Aren't all women like that? We've already come to the conclusion that if you are an average male and don't put in any work then no woman will be attracted to you - you have to get (*money, status, fitness, resources)... so this American woman is no different than the foreign woman - she just has so much more exaggerated choice that simple things like even a $100,000 income and normal cool guy isn't enough - you need travel, interesting hobbies, great wardrobe, DL 400 lbs and Bench 300 lbs, etc.

It's funny how warped our system is. Everytime I use online dating I realize this. I don't know if I'm a 6 or 7 - or whatever, but I'm not a top 20% guy and maybe if I became perfect and invest all my time money and resources in my SMV then I could get there - but that's a fools errand to invest all your resources into you - it's a shallow life. So women eventually are leaning towards shallow men in some ways - if all the indicators of attraction are (fancy sports car, extravagant vacations, party / extensive social life with drinking, thousands of dollars on clothes to stay in fashion, metrosexual grooming, etc).

I know this is more of a red pill than a Christian red pill post but this whole system is busted.