Is there a way to know you created a alpha widow after you break up with her?

I Read some of the book “Rational Male” and he brings up the Alpha widow. I always hear of the signs of when you are dating one. Are they any signs from your previous relationships that she will become a alpha widow after you leave her?

For example, I’m a 25 year old male who recently broke up with a gf who I dated for 4 years and knew for 5 years. She was in love with me,obsessed with me and worship the ground I walked. She had a small circle with a very low body count and always saw us getting married. She was very submissive to me and always followed my lead. I am a fit attractive male with a business, nice apartment, and would consider myself above average or someone who stands out from the crowd. Could that set the bar so high that it’s going to be harder for her to date other men. I can put more details about it but I want to keep this short and to the point

Do you think some of those elements I talked about is enough to know that a girl is set up to be a alpha widow after you leave her? Btw It’s not like I’m hoping she’s a alpha widow and that she will forever not let go of me, I’m just using me as pure example so you can understand the question.