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[β]Terminal-Psychosis27 points28 points29 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I disagree. He's describing MGTOW, not RedPill. The latter is infinitely superior to the former.
MGTOW boys give up, RedPill men take advantage. Two VERY different reactions to the same problem.
[β]backizwack8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Refer to the sidebar. It says women are incapable of loving a man the way a man wants to be loved. Basically, it means that the Disney movie fantasy that youβll βfind someone who loves all your faultsβ is a farce. But in my mind I think itβs more of a thing like, we are unhappy in relationships because we put too much expectation and hope in our partner. To me, it can apply to both genders.
[β]Terminal-Psychosis2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
A grown man will never have unconditional love he got from Mother, ever again. Harsh reality. And men that grew up without a loving mother have a huge learning curve. They need to be VERY strong.
A man's roll in relationships includes the roll of father figure at times. Not so with women, in fact just the opposite. Try to make a girl play Mama for you, and she'll only resent you for it. Even despise you, and for good reason.
Only on VERY rare occasions you might let her see you upset / weak. Best to frame it as a compliment to her, if it ever happens; "You know me so well, nobody ever sees me upset. Guess I trust you." can work, but only once in a blue moon.
No woman wants to play mama for her man. Save deep problems for your best male friends, ones you can REALLY trust. Even one good brother is an invaluable resource.
Mostly though, men have to go it alone, especially those without a good father, or that had to watch him pass. You are the patriarch, and the world expects you to play the part regardless of the "men need to show emotions" trap. Especially women, most of all romantic interests, be it plate or LTR.
[β]ialexsg9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think is possible. The problem is men nowadays get emotionally attached to a point where they cannot think in terms of happiness if they are not with that special someone they have in mind.
Happiness is not a someone, happiness is an emotion that must come from the inside. By having it, you start to date because you want to, not because you need to.
[β]christian07282 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Why does it say they are incapable of loving them back?
[β]roryburlon[S] 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Because they loose frame and let the women control the relationship
[β]dusara21710 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is incredibly wrong-headed. Women aren't incapable of love, they're simply incapable of love in the way that many men want them to.
[β]Ozito881 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Is this the rational male?
[β]roryburlon[S] 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Itβs Alpha male strategies. He has a youtube channel
[β]bigmelwalter0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What book is this?
[β]roryburlon[S] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Alpha male strategies
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