Any good books on being a dad or father?

Be the person you want your child to be, not the person your parents want you to be. Treat every single human with respect and spread as much compassion and positivity as you can with your time on this earth. Take care of your health, mentally and physically. Know your limits and boundaries and be clear with what they are, explain them to others as well and be firm in not letting others cross your boundaries. Do those things, teach your child to do those things and you'll be A-ok