Hey everyone. I could use some advice. I'm going to be a father and she's sick everyday. She got triggered over nothing and 2 months ago broke up with me. It's not uncommon for pregnant women to push their men away. One of the first results when I type in google "pregnant girlfriend " it suggests "dumped me" "hates me" etc. So I tried to go with the flow but got a bit emotional. Asked her to work it out, asked her why she's acting like that etc. When one of her responses was "stop talking about us" "there is no us" "only message me about the baby" That's when I gave up and just stopped talking to her altogether. It's been hard. I always pictured being a happy couple, buying things for the baby, going to doctors appointments etc. After 2 months she messaged me the other day accusing me of ignoring her. Asking if I even care , do I want to be a father? So I said if we're not together then I'm not going to be involved in any way. I said message me if you change your mind. Some people say its the hormones and I can understand she is thinking about the baby. So I am pulling my shit together. I have an appointment with a lawyer next week to form a "just in case" battle plan. I'm wondering, should I give her the attention? Check up on her, ask her how she's doing? Or should I stick to my word and stay cold on her? It's a tough dilemma.