Be they your daughters, nieces or cousins, in light of the current state of girl role models, everyone is worrying for the safety and morals of little girls they care about. Let me share with you stories of 3 different girls, parents and exposure to slutty rolemodels and tell me what you think

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B, 18 years old

B has been spoiled by her parents and a lifetime of strangers coming up to her and saying she's so pretty. She got off easy from any trouble, teachers cut ther slack if she started crying, the whole harpy-in-training package.

By the time I found RP principles and tried to help it was too late. Her parents will do anything as long as she cries a little. Her boyfriend is a sad pussy whipped that will do anything she says. She doesn't have any girl friends (red flag) and only hangs out with boys saying girls are stupid.

I don't know how this happened as her parents are good people but the furthest I could get is that she respects me when I go to their place. She talks back to everyone, including parents and more family, often including insults and swearing. Let this be a cautionary tale: be careful of maintaining frame with little girls, they need it

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M, 13 years old

M's mom is my godmother so I visit them often and attend cerimonies with them and so forth. I feared for her since mom spoiled her and she was turning into a bit of a brat, mostly from seeing B as an example (they're cousins).

Her parents kept losing frame, she decided what's for dinner and their lives spinned around M. But gradma saved the day! M's nana is a traditional lady and decided she wouldn't take no shit from a little kid or have her make her son unhappy. So she asked the parents to watch the girl (at roughly 10/11) instead of sending her to extra curricular stuff.

She is completely changed, docile and crafty, dresses modestly unlike so many her age and thinks exposed buttcheeks are gross (ew, her butt is touching the seat, look!). Lesson: frame doesn't need to be tough, but is needed. Sometimes soft frame and leading by example can be more effective than any punishment! M's mom has also started to look/act more feminine as a result. Lead by example, moms!

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G, 8 years old

G is my goddaughter. I try my best to spend time with her and be a good example, encourage good hobbies and a sweet demeanor but I feel like I'm fighting a losing battle against the sass-mouths on TV.G often begs her mom for stuff like makeup and crop-tops and talks back sometimes too

Thankfully I have found RP stuff, especially RPW early enough to help. This girl now begs to spend time with me and says I'm her favorite grownup. So I do my best to do fun yet wholesome things together and try my best to help out.

But it still feels like blowing one of those magic prank candles that light back up everytime she talks about a deplorable role model or slutty trend. She has a bit of trouble making close friends despite being a sociable child and I'm afraid of her early teens. So far so good, but let's see what happens and hope for the best.

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This is a bit of a wall if text but I want to spark discussion on what your experiences are in raising/help raise little girls in these "modern times" so let's hear it!