I have a daughter that just turned 3 and is... how to say this? Annoying AF.

She whines and cries and throws fits with a high pitched shriek when she doesn't get her way.

My son was never this annoying, and when he threw tantrums it was easy to deal with - a couple spankings and the problem went away.

I've tried spanking, as well as listening/comforting, and we rarely give into them but nothing seems to be working. Help!

Maybe this needs to be posted at r/redpillfatherhood ?