Hello. :) I'm 26, newly single, and not dating right now. I'm unsure how to go about the vetting process. I'm focusing this time on improving myself and knowing I'm offering a worthwhile first-mate, while learning all I can. When I am ready to date again, I'd like to feel I have a better sense of what I'm doing and the key qualities I should be looking for as well as what to avoid.
What are the ways to vet for a good man?
How did/do you ladies vet for a guy or know when one is right?
What are your must-haves and deal breakers?
How long should one vet a guy before trusting or a relationship forming?
I'd like to keep this post open to discussion, as well as advice for myself and in general.
Thanks so much ladies! <3
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