As many of you know, I am a huge fan of LD. Her books have definitely change my life for the better. Her latest blog post specifically states

We women are the gatekeepers of sex from the very beginning of the relationship.

I was like WHOOOAAA we say that all the time. So I figured it would be relevant to post.

In her post she discusses two aspects of relationships where women do have immense power. The first of which is being receptive to the gifts your husband brings to the table. The second is about sexual availability.

She makes statements like:

A receptive woman is inevitably a well-taken-care-of woman.

I absolutely believe this. When you become receptive to your mans gifts and actually acknowledge what they are, you being to realize just how taken care of you really are. She details the interweaving of the male and female dynamics in such a way that makes it apparent that yes.... receiving benefits both you AND your SO.

Once a man is in an exclusive relationship, he’ll go a long way to make sure that his wife or girlfriend is not upset with him to avoid the unpleasant consequences of not being able to have sex.

How many of you have been in a dead bedroom situation? Or what happens during a 'dry' period? Does your man panic and try harder? Does he feel rejected and dejected? Who exactly has the power in that dynamic to fix it?

Here is the blog post. I really enjoyed this post and thought y'all might like it too. What are your thoughts on it?