Laura Doyle says to not mention the changes you’re making. And not to ask how about how different it seems.
But…
I want the validation!! I want to hear, “yes, you’ve made amazing changes! Thank you.”. And I have become a little nagging with it. Like “did you notice how nice the kitchen looked when you got home?” And times that by rooms in the house and whatnot.
I’m trying to focus on the positive affects it’s having and how relaxed my husband seems. But, man! It’s hard.
Help!!
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