Is it alright to desire to be a provider husband?

cheletisha · 2022-07-11T14:30:46+00:00

Ummm absolutely. You just have to find a woman who wants this too which is becoming harder to find the more society tells women that they need to be independent and work. You definitely want to have this discussion with any woman pretty early on in your relationship so you don't waste your time or get heartbroken later.

TheMrsTraditional · 2022-07-11T16:43:13+00:00

There need to be more men like this!

PinkRasberryFish · 2022-07-11T20:03:03+00:00

Yes it’s perfectly normal: don’t let anyone belittle your dream. I see posts on social media of women complaining that they wish they could just be a housewife/SAHM, but they’re filling out spreadsheets instead. Almost all my friends are SAHM’s or only work part-time. It’s very normal in some parts of the US.

EviessVeralan · 2022-07-11T22:06:04+00:00

Absolutely. I'd recommend having the "What are you looking for" talk early though.

Fngrlnglnggd · 2022-07-12T01:20:22+00:00

100% many of us want that. It puts us in a very vulnerable position though, so I get the hesitation. So nice to find a man who embraces his god-given role so I can step into mine

thepowerelite · 2022-07-11T18:24:59+00:00

I've lived on 5 continents. Your dream would be easier accomplished in a developing country with traditional gender roles.

In the developed countries, the lines are being blurred for gender and marriage. Not necessarily a bad thing for a submissive man who wants to be pegged by his dom trans wife in an open marriage.

Cosima_Fan_Tutte · 2022-07-11T23:17:44+00:00

Is it common for women to want to be a fully provided for, stay at home wife?

It's extremely common and desirable after a woman has children.

warreniangreen · 2022-07-11T23:47:20+00:00

Yes, it's alright as long as it's what you both want. Talk about it with your future wife. My wife and I agreed early on we would maintain traditional roles. I worked and she took care of the kids. We split housework, she managed the inside and I managed the outside. It worked out great for us, because it's what we both wanted.

Kylepoma8587 · 2022-07-12T03:54:42+00:00

Being a provider is what will make you the happiest. It’ll also help with balance in your relationship

Title	Is it alright to desire to be a provider husband?
Author	johnsmith2027
Upvotes	24
Comments	11
Date	July 11, 2022 1:43 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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