This might seem extremely silly lol. My fiance and I have been cohabitating for years and have a very traditional relationship (covid ruined our 2020 wedding plans) My fiance hates vegetables and refuses to eat them except for a little in a smoothie. He's the youngest of a middle eastern family and got away with eating/doing whatever he wanted whenever and is does (at his parents). He's not overweight but his doctor wants him to eat healthier because he's at risk for health problems. I once put shredded zucchini in some cheesy rice and used mashed cauliflower in a recipe. He enjoyed it thoroughly and complimented it but when I told him what was in it he got grosses out and won't eat it again. It's a mental aversion and as long as he doesn't know he's fine. I've always wanted to make zucchini chocolate muffins but he flat out refuses to try one. Tonight we went to my friends house and she made some zucchini muffins. I gave one to him without letting him know what type it was. He loved them so much and raved about them. He loved how they weren't as sweet as normal ones and how he liked them more than any other chocolate muffin. Which is true he doesn't like overly sweet things. I got the recipe for her and want to make them but as soon as he knows what's in it he'll change his mind about them and refuse them. Is it okay to have small little secrets like this. What he doesn't know won't hurt him right? Or do you think lying to him about what's in these of he asks will ruin his trust.
[–]Jay7947 points8 points9 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]cuddlewench4 points5 points6 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]Jay7946 points7 points8 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]cuddlewench12 points13 points14 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]Jay7940 points1 point2 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]cuddlewench4 points5 points6 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Jay7947 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Anonymous_fiend[S] 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]teaandtalk30, married 8 years5 points6 points7 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]Anonymous_fiend[S] 2 points3 points4 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]teaandtalk30, married 8 years1 point2 points3 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]Anonymous_fiend[S] 0 points1 point2 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]teaandtalk30, married 8 years1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Anonymous_fiend[S] 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]teaandtalk30, married 8 years0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]PeanutbutterDruidess2 points3 points4 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Anonymous_fiend[S] 2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]DelicateDevelopment6 points7 points8 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]teaandtalk30, married 8 years1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]JulianUNE5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ASTRA-LUXLate 30s, Happily Married10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]cuddlewench4 points5 points6 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Anonymous_fiend[S] 5 points6 points7 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]cuddlewench0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Rock_Granite3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]_trixie_firecracker_31 - 5 years married, 7 total1 point2 points3 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]Anonymous_fiend[S] 0 points1 point2 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]_trixie_firecracker_31 - 5 years married, 7 total0 points1 point2 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Anonymous_fiend[S] 1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]_trixie_firecracker_31 - 5 years married, 7 total0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Anonymous_fiend[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]teaandtalk30, married 8 years0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]spiceylifey0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link