I’m 28, he’s 32. When we got married we discussed having children when I was 31. Ever since getting married (2 years ago) the timeline for that keeps getting pushed out more and more. Next he was saying “in 10 years” I’d be 38. He couldn’t explain why...originally it was finances but we will be financially stable within a few years. Then, the other day he woke up and said getting a vasectomy was on his New Years resolution list and that he didn’t want kids.
I was completely stunned and didn’t know what to say. I wasn’t stoked on having kids anytime soon, but now I feel like the decision is being taken away from me. How should I go about this?
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