Shit tests.
As some 101 RPWives info, the above is a shit test. The most basic definition of a shit test is giving an SO a question or test with no right answer (or where the true answer can be wrong). See the above for an example! The age old "Does X make me look fat" is a classic. If they answer yes, it's wrong. If they answer no, it's also wrong. Any real answer to that question is going to be wrong. In most cases, with shit tests, we're looking for one particular answer and want our men to read our minds. But they obviously can't.
Some more examples: 1, 2, 3 (but this is more annoying than a pure shit test)
What do shit tests do? They cause unnecessary fights and strife in relationships. Men are left dazed and confused because they often don't understand how they answered incorrectly. Women are left steaming for no good reason other than to cause drama.
How do you avoid shit testing a partner? The easy answer to this is obviously "don't do it." However, what you really want to do is think about your question, actions, or behavior before it's out there. Is there a right answer to it? If no, it's a shit test. Don't ask/do it. If yes, will he get the right answer easily without reading your mind? If no, don't do it! And will you get unreasonably upset if he gives you the "wrong" answer? If yes, don't do it. If no, go ahead only if you know it's not going to seriously upset him if you do/say that thing.
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