Building off of this thread, below are two sets of questions meant to help single women (anyone that is dating and not in an LTR) as well as a bonus section for online daters. First is a list for women that are just trying to meet men, and do not currently have one they are specifically interested in. The second list is for women that are going on dates with a specific man, and trying to make the jump to exclusivity. The third list is for anyone that uses online dating and is experiencing issues there.

Questions for Single Ladies

  1. How long have you been single?
  2. How many dates do you go on in a week?
  3. Do first dates tend to lead to second dates?
  4. What roadblocks are you hitting?
  5. How often are you approached by men?
  6. What are your three biggest flaws right now?
  7. How are you trying to minimize those flaws?

Questions for women that are trying to earn exclusivity (still single, but actively working towards an LTR with a specific man)

  1. Did you make it clear early on that you are only interested in exclusive relationships?
  2. Do you know for certain that he is interested in/wants an exclusive relationship?
  3. Do you know what his ‘needs’ and ‘musts’ are?
  4. Do you tick off all of his ‘musts’?
  5. Do you meet the majority of things on his ‘needs’ lists?
  6. How long have you been going on dates with him?
  7. How many dates have you had with him?
  8. How often do you spend time together in person?
  9. How often are you talking?

Bonus: Online Dating Issues

If you are experience issues with online dating, feel free to talk about that as well.

Some questions to consider:

  1. How often are you messaging men you want to go on a date with?
  2. How often are men (that you are willing to go on a date with) messaging you?
  3. What's a typical timeline for you from messaging to going on a date?
  4. What are the biggest problems you have to deal with?

All these questions form a simple starting point from which more in depth conversations can evolve. If there is other significant information that has not been covered in the questions please include that information in your comment.