I was asked by a couple of members here to pin a post explaining the difference between this sub and /r/RedPillWomen.

In short -

RedPillWomen is run by TRP men,

RedPillWives is run by women.


Up until a few years ago, the RedPillWomen sub was technically part of the TRP network, but with an active female mod team who wrote all of the content and made all of the rules. This worked fine while the men stayed in their own lane, and there was a thriving community led by married women. Eventually the TRP men started throwing their weight around - making posts and enforcing rules that went against the female imperative - so all of the original mods left en masse and created this place.

RedPillWomen has since been run exclusively by TRP men and the two female mods they personally approve of. If a woman goes against their narrative, she is de-modded and banned. It is unmarried TRP men, not women, who have the final say on the direction of the sub.

RedPillWives on the other hand has always been run by women, for women. It is a place for us to gather and discuss our relationships/marriages through a red pill lense without unnecessary male input and censorship. It is red pill, but in no way connected to the /r/TheRedPill subreddit or their mods. There are no male mods here, and any theory/advice is written from the female perspective and to help women pursue the kind of relationships that they want. We don't believe that a man, especially an unmarried TRP man, will ever be able to give the kind of advice that a married red pill woman can give from her own experience.

Do you need to be married in order to participate here?

No. As long as you are red pill, a woman, and see the value in marriage you are very welcome.

Are men allowed to participate?

If you must. If your advice is red pill and beneficial to a woman and her relationship then go ahead. Incels, MGTOWs, MRAs and TRP-flavored men on a crusade against marriage will be banned on sight.

Hope that clears it up a little, and we're happy to have you here!