Following on from yesterday's post about household voting, I am now curious about where you draw the line.
What things would you not follow your husband into?
Does anyone truly turn over 100% of their control to their husband, or do we almost all retain certain inviolable rights and decisions?
I know it may take a bit of thinking around the ideas that your husband would never ask it of you, but I thought it could be an interesting thought exercise.
For me, an open marriage is a red line. I have tried having a poly-style relationship with my husband and another woman, and it was a disaster that I would not repeat. Also drug use, and also what to do about an unexpected pregnancy (though I would do my very best to make this a unanimous decision, the ultimate choice would rest with me)
What about you?
[–]q-the-lightMid 20s, engaged and cohabiting. 7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Wildeanethics25, Married 6 months, together 3 years 7 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]HappilyMrsMid 30s, Married 17 years, 20 years total[S] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Buckley92 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]HappilyMrsMid 30s, Married 17 years, 20 years total[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Sea_Bookkeeper_1533 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]HappilyMrsMid 30s, Married 17 years, 20 years total[S] 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Sea_Bookkeeper_1533 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link