Following on from yesterday's post about household voting, I am now curious about where you draw the line.

What things would you not follow your husband into?

Does anyone truly turn over 100% of their control to their husband, or do we almost all retain certain inviolable rights and decisions?

I know it may take a bit of thinking around the ideas that your husband would never ask it of you, but I thought it could be an interesting thought exercise.

For me, an open marriage is a red line. I have tried having a poly-style relationship with my husband and another woman, and it was a disaster that I would not repeat. Also drug use, and also what to do about an unexpected pregnancy (though I would do my very best to make this a unanimous decision, the ultimate choice would rest with me)

What about you?