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13 Female Qualities

September 19, 2016

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Title 13 Female Qualities
Author vanBeethovenLudwig
Upvotes 39
Comments 15
Date September 19, 2016 8:58 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit /r/RedPillWomen
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[–]youreallmeatanyway15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

blatantly faked, exaggerated helplessness will only serve to irritate your man.

Or in the case of me and my ex: letting the smoke detector beep all day until I get home and then expect me to change it.

Kind-heartedness and a readiness to care, cherish, and forgive

I'm a generally jovial guy, but some days I'm just in a dark mood. It is on those days that I really appreciate a woman who is genuinely bright and warm.

[–]rainyweathergirl 20 points20 points [recovered] | Copy Link

How is anyone supposed to be helpless, confident and independent all at once? This article doesn't make a lot of sense.

[–][deleted] 33 points34 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I can earn money to help my husband support the family (independent) but I'm scared of spiders and he needs to kill them (helpless). I can pump my own gas (independent) but I need him to open pickle jars (helpless).

[–]QueenBee1264 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Good example Miss Sadie

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank ya kindly!

[–]pinkdrawings0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm confused on why you added confident to your list! You can be confident on your ideas, looks, etc.

[–]vanBeethovenLudwigEndorsed Contributor[S] 6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I'd actually love to hear other women's opinion on the qualities in terms of what age they tend to manifest. At least for me I didn't hit all these qualities until age 26/27. If theoretically female SMV peaks in early twenties, I definitely wasn't very confident, independent or well dressed back then and I don't forsee many college age women like this either...any thoughts?

It just seems like it takes a lot of maturity to have these qualities and nowadays that maturity isn't found in young women (18-22 yo).

[–]Gardrothard3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think that a lot of these qualities are already present in women, it's that they are brainwashed into thinking that they need to hide them. Femininity is constantly connected to stupidity and naivety. Women listen to stories about men being pigs and don't allow themselves to really care because of that.

[–]pinkdrawings0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree VERY few 18-22 year olds I know are any of these things. Most young people I know don't have a lot of self-confidence or independence.

[–]dunamis_energeia[🍰] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

19 year old here, I can say that the "ability to live in the here and now" and in some sense the "communication skills" are the areas that I still need to improve. But I do see joyfulness and that tender femininity that the article refers to multiple times as main issues with women my age. The result? Bitterness and poor presentation as well as confidence.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Male Qualities please.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I'd say publicly known self-sufficiency, including being sufficient through social skills and networking. Or essentially, wealth and status. And probably confidence and ambition, which aren't always synonymous with wealth and status. While being pleasant and empathetic seem like traits both genders find attractive. So wealth, status, confidence, ambition, being pleasant to be around (which can be subjective depending on the woman), and empathy.

But I also think men and women are somewhat naturally wired to seek out what would make them more attractive if they have secure attachment styles or more mental/emotional stability. It seems like human beings are constantly being pulled into choices that hurt them in the long term, in varying aspects of their lives, by an instinctual desire for short term survival, because our brains haven't caught up with civilization.

[–]smirk_addict2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I was going to say that I don't think many women put wealth and status above those other qualities but then I thought about... Every guy wants a beautiful, or sexy, or hot woman. But then when she has feminine traits or is just a pleasure to be around, we are hooked. So I guess it's the same with a man being successful in some form and then his character being the deciding factor. You're right.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I remember hearing that when we moved from hunter-gatherer societies to farming societies, the majority of women were having sex and relationships with the guys who were farming. Life was harsh and there was no birth control. From a male view, that's still dark to think about, because it would seem like a lot of men basically went without relationships with women throughout their entire lives, which would probably mess them up in the head. Maybe the harshness of staying alive another day was a blessing for those men.

But even then, I wonder how much knowledge of human attachment and emotional security rooted in mutual survival might have mitigated some of that. Sue Johnson's couple's therapy based on attachment theory claims at least a 70% success rate, and women primarily divorce over emotional security and not money. So studying the mitigation of female hypergamy and its male equivalent has been how I've healed somewhat from swallowing the red pill and seeing mental sex differences, female hypergamy, and male disposability play out in society.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Great article, I love it! Nice find, /u/vanBeethovenLudwig !

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