Hello ladies - This is my suggestion on 8 personal skills you must start to develop as part of your feminine journey!

I would love to hear you leadirs perspective on this and if there are some important skills that should be added as well.

Personally, I have been on my femininity journey since March 2018 and I quickly realized that this journey goes much deeper than just looking feminine (even though it's a great start!)Β 

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8 IMPORTANT FEMININE SKILLS FEMININE LADIES MUST DEVELOP

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1) EMOTIONAL CONTROL

The ability to stay calm and make the rigth choice in difficult situations is extremely important (for anyone really). This will also make sure that you never end up being the "crazy" girlfriend or make too much damage to your relationships.

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2) PATIENCE & BEINGNESS

This is very important as give a man the space to chase you and win you over. This increases both your feminine energy and his masculine energy, and it will stop you from obsessing over when a man is going to call you. Really, it's important for your sanity.

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3) RECEIVING & APPRECIATION

This is very important to inspire a man to keep taking action to pursue you, spoil you and to adore you. When you can clearly show him that he makes you happier with his actions (still, you are responsible for you own baseline happiness,Β  his action are extra), you incentivise him to keep doing it, as he will feel more like a success (in pleasing you) when you show him your "pleasure".

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4) LISTENING, BEING QUIET & HOLDING SPACE FOR OTHERS

This is a very loving skill to have and it's basically "holding" other people's heart, by letting them express their excitement and passion with out interrupting them. I also call it listen with your heart, and people feel so loved and you learn another about that person.

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5) DUCT TAPE = STOP CRITICIZING OTHER PEOPLE

When ever you feel like giving unsolicited advice or just to comment on other people's behavior DON'T! It does do anything good for you nor your relation and frankly, it's disrespectful and condescending (even though that is not your intention). Stop criticizing and nagging other people. (Use boundaries instead and stay calm and firm.)

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6) ENCOURAGEMENT & SUPPORT

The feminine role in a traditional relationship is very much to be the supporter and help mate of your husband. Practicing this skill with anyone you love lifts them up when they are down, and it's an important skill to develop especially for your (future) family's mental health.

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7) PLAYFULNESS & BRINGING LIGHT

This is one of the more untangable, alluring and very attractive skills feminine women must develop. Being the godess of light and fun as Laura Doyle would say. Be FUN to be around! Not in a joking kind of way, but in a childlike, adorable, insolent and silly manner - be girly, bring out your inner girl (- of course don't be immature by acting like this in the wrong situations.)

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8) AGENCY & RESPONSIBILITY

A feminine woman never sees her self as powerless or a victim. She knows she knows she has agency to change her life and always look on how she can improve her self or other aspects of her life.

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What other personal skills do you ladies find important to develop as a feminine lady?

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Also, if you want more details I have made a video on this topic and I hope you might find my video useful and my channel interesting πŸ’–

πŸ‘‰πŸ» https://youtu.be/zqxIEfsuUNY

I hope to help more women find and embrace their true inner feminine self 🌸

My channel is in its essence about being free to be feminine! I focus on Femininity, Happiness, and Transformation. If you want to become more feminine, then this is the right place to be 🌸 (I will speak up against feminists and feminism as well)

🌸 you are welcome to take a look if these topics interest you 😊 🌸

PS. English isn't my first language,Β  I hope the spelling doesn't interfere with understanding πŸ™‚