Any ladies found marriage past 30?

ubcthrowaway1996 · 2021-11-07T17:24:17+00:00

Lmao OP I hope you ignore the other comment and pay attention to constructive opinion instead

the_invisible_hand76 · 2021-11-07T18:15:50+00:00

You will find a man with good character at any age. Get clear on what you need most, my advice is to look for someone who seems healthy, wants to communicate etc. And try to be that person yourself as well. Do not pay attention to people like this who try to knock your self esteem down. They are only setting you up for failure to settle for something you do not deserve.

pieorstrudel5 · 2021-11-07T17:48:09+00:00

The correct question should be.... Have you gotten to a point in your life where you are confident in who you are, what you want, and are improving yourself daily? Too many women focus on getting the man and not enough focus on having what it takes to get a man. There is no age that fits one person.

My partner and I found each other at 30. We had dated when younger, but it wasn't until I "grew up" that I was ready for what it takes to maintain a long term relationship. We have been together closing in on a decade.

If you feel confident in yourself.... Then go and enjoy your life. Go to the gym, have a self care/grooming routine, go to events around town, go to concerts with your friends, make friends if you don't have any, don't dress like a harlot, don't sleep around, join service organizations that appeal to you. Have a busy full life and keep being open to men and dating.

Stop sitting on the internet fretting about turning 30 years old. You aren't gonna meet anyone doing that.

CountTheBees · 2021-11-07T22:40:17+00:00

Tell me, which post in the RPW wiki is only useful for women in their 20s? I can't see one.

Seems like you haven't done your homework and have a bit of a chip on your shoulder. Laziness and entitlement will not help you when dating.

titlejunk · 2021-11-08T01:24:40+00:00

I met my MD husband when I was 34 and he was 32. We don’t have kids together because I already had 2 and he already had 3. Regardless, our relationship is much more RP than anything I ever expected to be involved in. He works. I stay home. I cook, clean, raise kids and dogs.

It wasn’t what I was looking for. It wasn’t what I thought I wanted. That being the case, it’s still what I got.

Anonymous_fiend · 2021-11-08T02:00:21+00:00

You can but you need to be realistic and broaden your standards. Know your smv and rmv. If you're stuck on a man being tall, super fit, rich, etc then you may not find a husband. Those traits don't make a good husband they're nice luxuries on top. Work on your baggage so you don't bring it into your next relationship. Learn to vette better. Did you try counseling or therapy with your ex or did you just toss him out after 10 years.

Yeah that's the dating pool for women in their 30s. The men most women want have too many options so they often play the field. The good ones are taken or dating younger women. What's wrong with a single dad? You can always have another kid with him. Divorced men can also be a great match. They've had their own relationship problems and have hopefully grown and learned from them. OLD really isn't the best place to find someone. I've always had better luck irl (and found my fiance that way). Try going to meet ups and events. Tell people you're looking for a serious relationship. Maybe they'll know of a good match.

While you may think your acquaintance brings less to the table maybe she doesn't. She may be pleasant to be around and cooperative. Being in your positive feminine energy can attract a healthy masculine man into your life. You may be attracting the wrong men or choosing them subconsciously. Broken men like broken women. Being jealous of others happiness just leads to becoming bitter.

Full-you123 · 2021-11-08T02:30:11+00:00

Couples meet in their 30s everyday

Wild-Second-6852 · 2021-11-08T02:40:40+00:00

Maybe? I’m hopeful. Though I’m 31 and single and pregnant haha. I don’t know if I’ll date again though. To be honest, the pickings were slim for me in my twenties so I can’t imagine now that I’m a single mom with a baby, two rowdy dogs, and some other pets I’m rehabilitating lol. No one wants that really. But idk. I’m hopeful? I do wonder if I’ll ever find true love. But after 30 our options do go down. Oh well 🤷🏼‍♀️

Lawyerdogg · 2021-11-07T20:28:09+00:00

You need to work extra hard and try and provide for a man. All sorts of good men can be found if they can be stay at home dads.

crater01 · 2021-11-07T17:15:27+00:00

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Title	Any ladies found marriage past 30?
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Date	November 7, 2021 4:16 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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