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Being feminine landed me a good boyfriend!

April 29, 2022

18 soon to be 19 here. I recently started college and I have done some major work on becoming feminine I have always been very girly but I was always so afraid of receiving. I met my boyfriend back in February. He was the first man to take me on a date and he always pays the bill.

I have picked up some new hobbies like reading and have been getting into fashion. Im proud of myself for learning to be more calm and not be so full of anger.

My boyfriend and I talked about our future and he prefers me to be a housewife and he the worker. Which is what I absolutely prefer! He treats me so nicely and I am really grateful for him. ❤️

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Title Being feminine landed me a good boyfriend!
Author LoveWitchXo
Upvotes 151
Comments 18
Date April 29, 2022 3:12 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/RedPillWomen
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[–]AriesLeoSagFire79 14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Love to hear it!

[–]unefilleperdue 9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

That is wonderful news! Please don’t let the naysayers saying it is too soon sway you… I am 19 and my fiancé is 20. We started dating when I was 18 and he 19. When you know, you know.

[–]LoveWitchXo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

thank you! the comments are just worried because of my age but im happy.

[–]saddensgirl1 Star 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

My husband and I met when we were 20 and 19. Got married 5 years later. We both knew we wanted to marry each other within the first year of dating. So I agree.

[–]amadexodus 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You're doing a beautiful job! Very happy for you.

(Also privately kicking myself a bit for continuing to be a horror show of bad feminist influences when I was your me, whatever happens next with this guy, you're still young and you're doing great).

[–]LoveWitchXo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

thanks! im not expecting to last forever since our relationship is fairly new but im proud of raising my standards and finding a guy with the same ideas as me!

[–]toxic98131 points [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link

How long has it been? He's already talking about what he wants from you as a wife? This might be a little quick for my tastes. I'd tell you to remain cautious but I've been in your position, you probably couldn't take it easy if you tried!

I hope it works out for you.

[–]shirtled 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I don’t find it quick, I find it being forward from the get go about what your looking for to avoid dating someone you’re not compatible with.

[–]ungar5081 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

İm like his boyfrined too ,quick to cling and make long lasting plans

Thats how my heart got broken many times because i tought we would never get separted 😓 ,its best that both parties took it seruisly at some point

My New tacktcik is , i dont make plans unitl i get ready to buy a ring 😤 Otherwise i dotn want to feel that heartbroken feeling LoL .

İ know how he feels ,he is young and probly dident get his heart broken like me many times to understand it

[–]toxic98131 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah, me too. I am an affectionate man and I have almost everything in my life totally together. I'm ready for a relationship. So when I meet someone I want to dive in head first. But I KNOW this is a bad tactic. Good things take time. Don't dive into shit before you really know a person.

[–]itsmemaggi 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yet when I said the same thing about a man talking about kids only a few months in, everyone dogpiled. I agree. Unless you're in a culture that encourages short courtships, this seems incredibly fast.

[–]drumtrackartist 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Happy for you! Feminine always wins.

[–]TheMrsTraditional 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is wonderful, congratulations! Biblical Womanhood makes for a beautiful marriage

[–]111loR 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm happy for you, and not to poop on your parade but that's probably confirmation bias. Sorry. Had you been a single feminist jerk till 30 and then found someone after learning to be feminine, we'd have something valuable as confirmation whatever you changed worked. Like this, you just got your 1st bf as you would have around this time anyway.

I do wish you all the luck and I don't doubt life improvements won't have a great impact on the quality of your relationships. I am sure it will, and that it already has. It's just that you can't really know so early.

[–]magmawing98 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Very nice to hear, good for you.

[–]Rvtrance 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s great I wish you kids the best!

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's so great.I am so jealous of you lol

[–]MelanieBeckinsale 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why were you full of anger to begin with?

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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