Being in love with a red pilled man

limgirl420 · 2021-01-09T14:29:50+00:00

Sounds very abusive. Dump him immediately.

KombuchaEnema · 2021-01-09T15:30:24+00:00

I’ve seen plenty of red-pilled men who hate cheating and won’t condone it.

I wouldn’t stay with him. I understand the rule is to give advice on how to fix it, but this is long-term infidelity. I genuinely don’t believe there is a fix.

money-_-sun · 2021-01-09T16:23:05+00:00

Why the fuck are you with him, just leave.

Source: I'm a man

a-little-spice · 2021-01-09T14:56:01+00:00

Just block him on everything, erase all photos, and walk away and focus on your hobbies and friends for a bit. You don’t need to explain yourself. You owe him nothing. You’ll be amazed how fast you forget him Hold your head high

stayPositive890 · 2021-01-09T16:21:20+00:00

Honey, he does not love you. No man on earth who truly loves his woman will purposely do anything to hurt her because he can't stand to see her in pain. Let alone do it over and over and over again.

Actions speak louder than words. A man can say anything, but the truth is in his actions. You need to take a look at yourself. There's a reason why you remain with a man who continuously hurts you for years, and you keep giving yourself excuses to stay with him.

You need therapy -- whether self therapy or with a professional. I hope you leave this relationship, work on yourself, and find someone who will truly love you and wouldn't do anything to hurt you. My heart goes out to you.

Icy-Commission-173 · 2021-01-10T02:05:02+00:00

I agree with everyone here. Please leave, you are lucky that you don't have children with him. This reminds me of a aqaintince that stayed with her boyfriend for neigh 20 years until until he died and they were in a similar situation as you. May I ask, do you love you enough to find better!

using your views just to be an abuser.

TranslatedSky · 2021-01-09T21:41:02+00:00

Well from all your replies you know exactly what is going on. You have come here because you want to be absolutely done with this horrible situation, and to be able to move on. That’s not easy because you’ve basically been addicted for 12 years.

So what you need to do is treat this person like a drug addiction and quit him cold turkey. You say you cannot resist his charms, so block him on every means so he cannot reach you. Change your number if you must. Don’t let him know so he won’t try to protest.

You say you have been on this man’s hook since you were 19. That makes you 31 now and with each passing year, it will make it harder for you to find a partner who you may share a genuine mutual love with. It will not be easy and I know women who get stuck in the cycle of going back every time. Question is are you going to break away now, or come to the same realisation when you’ve wasted a few more years and it starts getting really hard to find a good partner? Are you prepared to be single or in unrequited love for the rest of your life?

It’s all down to you at the end of the day. You already know he’s bad. He’s admitted that he’s bad. 12 years. No advice in the world can help you unless you help yourself.

pearlsandstilettos · 2021-01-09T22:51:10+00:00

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Prestigious_Ad_9627 · 2021-01-10T08:01:22+00:00

Stay Strong!

-Me

MTB13579 · 2021-01-12T08:21:37+00:00

Leave him this is abuse. A red pill man is a protector and provider for this woman.

RunsWlthScissors · 2021-01-13T21:41:27+00:00

Rip the bandaid off and stop communicating. Longer you wait harder it is to do. There are lots of people out there I hope you find someone that treats you better.

Don’t feel bad for feeling jealous it’s called being human. As long as you don’t act out of those feelings you’ll be alright. In the next person hopefully you build enough trust those feelings are at minimum.

Love is a two way road paved out over time. Sounds like you’ve been stuck on a one way for a while. Also sounds like this person didn’t really like you for who are, just what you can offer. Coming out of this it’s important to find your independence, emotional abuse for this long has lasting negative consequences. You gotta work that out before taking it with you to your next relationship.

2021-01-21T16:34:33+00:00

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Title	Being in love with a red pilled man
Author	Lifepath_7
Upvotes	7
Comments	28
Date	January 9, 2021 2:28 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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