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Boyfriend appreciation post 🥺🥺

April 16, 2021

This story has nothing to do with RPW but I’m literally dying inside of cuteness and I just need to let it out.

So my boyfriend usually goes to bed much earlier than me (8 pm ish) since he needs to get up for work at around 4. I usually cuddle with him until he’s pretty much sound asleep and then get up and do more work. This is partially so that the lights going on doesn’t prevent him from falling asleep.

To prevent the said lights from waking him up though, I build like a ~shadow fortress~ next to him (basically structuring a blanket and a pillow in such a way that a shadow is cast over him).

Today as I was making my shadow fortress, my boyfriend turns over, STILL ASLEEP, and gave the blanket roll a kiss because his sleeping brain thought it was me, and then started cuddling it still sound asleep.

I’m dying, it’s too cute, I can’t, I love this man so much, he’s so precious.

—— small field report though ——

I got nothing more to say than everything about intimacy I learned here and from Surrendered Wife WORKS. WORKS SO WELL ITS SCARY.

Luckily for me, a lot of these ideas come super naturally to me. I’m never one to nag, I’m pretty damn good at STFU, I’m childlike and girly, and I appreciate my man to the moon and back.

There are some cases where I think her ideas are archaic and surely not applicable anymore, but when I use them just to test it, it always works like a charm.

Another thing is, I’m really lucky in that I found out about these ideas when we first started dating. What happens when you use a “miracle cure” on a relationship that doesn’t need fixing? This relationship is AMAZING and he’s so ready to tie the knot.

There are a lot of stuff I don’t agree with on here, mostly to do with values and femininity and feminism and what not. Because of the TRP ties, sometimes this sub swings from misconceptions caused by toxic feminism to plain old sexism. e.g. toxic feminism: there is no such thing as overweight & all sizes are beautiful, sexism: size 8+ is fat and fat girls have less value. Both of those are untrue.

However, the intimacy stuff, 10/10 would recommend.

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Title Boyfriend appreciation post 🥺🥺
Author NotPast3
Upvotes 113
Comments 10
Date April 16, 2021 2:04 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit /r/RedPillWomen
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[–]Advanced_Bar_673 14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Love to hear it!!! I'm listening to The Empowered Wife, which dives further into the concepts. The more I try to implement these actions, the better our relationship is getting. I increased my "childlike" qualities, I'm always happy and positive around him, I do not give advice or opinions unless he specifically asks, and I have felt so much connection lately both emotionally and physically. As two people who each said we are more than happy to always love alone, we are spending several days together now at each other's places. It's quite magical when it clicks into place. Congrats!

[–]George_Rockwell 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Super cute, I'm glad you guys are happy together.

[–]Queasy-Ad-813 9 points10 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Alot of people are not into fat girls so it kinda is true a bit if you're looking to date

[–]NotPast3[S] -2 points-1 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Define “fat”. In my opinion if your clothing size doesn’t have an X in front of it, you shouldn’t be killing yourself over your weight.

Weight is first and foremost a health issue, not an aesthetic one. I think it’s important to remember that.

Of course there is nothing wrong at all with not wanting to date someone who is overweight or obese. But, there is something to be said about the type of men that thinks any girl that is not Instagram model level is “fat”. I don’t think one should want to date them anyways.

[–]Queasy-Ad-813 6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Fat is being out of the average weight group for your hight and age that can be shown statistically

[–]NotPast3[S] -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah see I’m okay with that definition. What I am not okay with is the toxic pressure to be super skinny. A healthy weight for a girl who’s 5’7 is anywhere from 122 to 149 pounds, but someone like Kendall Jenner for example is 5’10 and 119 pounds. If a dude’s definition of fat is “chubbier than models”, we should ignore him instead of teaching girls how to get skinnier to match those expectations.

[–]Queasy-Ad-813 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ya but there is always gonna be something negative no matter what insults happen with almost everything

[–]AdiaAdia 5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link


[–]NotPast3[S] 56 points57 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah so if you’re not familiar with the ideas commonly discussed on this sub this one requires some explaining. It has nothing to do with children/fetishes where you pretend to be younger/regression.

Basically, when we talk about childlike we’re talking about qualities that comes naturally to kids but adults sometimes lose: curiosity, a sense of adventure, finding happiness in small things (think kid + lollipop) and being very trusting. These qualities, on top of being great qualities to have as a person, are pretty attractive. Would you rather be with someone who is like that or someone who is super jaded by life?

A more advanced application of this is being angry/annoyed in a straightforward cutesy way. Kids usually don’t play mind games with you, give you the silent treatment, or whatever. Also when a child gets mad at you, your first response is rarely getting mad at them and getting into a screaming match.

Essentially, we try to take back those qualities that adult life has taken from us. I find that at the very least it makes me happier.

This has nothing to do with how you look, act, talk etc otherwise. It’s really just more of a mindset than anything. If you want the life where your SO do small dumb romantic stuff this is a good way to have that happen.

Don’t confuse this with being “childish” though. We don’t want rudeness, temper tantrums, annoying behaviour, being super dependent and clingy, etc. That type of behaviour we can definitely leave behind in our childhoods.

[–]AdiaAdia 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you for explaining, I wasn’t familiar with the term.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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