This story has nothing to do with RPW but I’m literally dying inside of cuteness and I just need to let it out.
So my boyfriend usually goes to bed much earlier than me (8 pm ish) since he needs to get up for work at around 4. I usually cuddle with him until he’s pretty much sound asleep and then get up and do more work. This is partially so that the lights going on doesn’t prevent him from falling asleep.
To prevent the said lights from waking him up though, I build like a ~shadow fortress~ next to him (basically structuring a blanket and a pillow in such a way that a shadow is cast over him).
Today as I was making my shadow fortress, my boyfriend turns over, STILL ASLEEP, and gave the blanket roll a kiss because his sleeping brain thought it was me, and then started cuddling it still sound asleep.
I’m dying, it’s too cute, I can’t, I love this man so much, he’s so precious.
—— small field report though ——
I got nothing more to say than everything about intimacy I learned here and from Surrendered Wife WORKS. WORKS SO WELL ITS SCARY.
Luckily for me, a lot of these ideas come super naturally to me. I’m never one to nag, I’m pretty damn good at STFU, I’m childlike and girly, and I appreciate my man to the moon and back.
There are some cases where I think her ideas are archaic and surely not applicable anymore, but when I use them just to test it, it always works like a charm.
Another thing is, I’m really lucky in that I found out about these ideas when we first started dating. What happens when you use a “miracle cure” on a relationship that doesn’t need fixing? This relationship is AMAZING and he’s so ready to tie the knot.
There are a lot of stuff I don’t agree with on here, mostly to do with values and femininity and feminism and what not. Because of the TRP ties, sometimes this sub swings from misconceptions caused by toxic feminism to plain old sexism. e.g. toxic feminism: there is no such thing as overweight & all sizes are beautiful, sexism: size 8+ is fat and fat girls have less value. Both of those are untrue.
However, the intimacy stuff, 10/10 would recommend.
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