Good day to all.

What is an ass hole?

This is a very important part of our bodies which serves a crucial function. It's the gateway through which we expel unwanted, harmful excrement from our bodies. Without an ass hole, we'd be in serious trouble.

The ass hole also has a sphincter. This is the muscle which holds it closed at all times, only opening up when you are ready to allow your bowels to clear their contents.

This is not satire, this is very important to understand.

What is an asshole?

An asshole is a person whose character traits are similar to the part of our body which is the ass hole. We call this person asshole and not sphincter because they lack the sphincter which keeps their crap to themselves. These people crap all over everyone. Thus, they are called assholes. This is a borrowed name.

A borrowed name is when you apply the concept of one thing to another. For example "this person has a heart of gold". If you did open heart surgery on them, you surely won't find gold in there. Gold is a precious metal and emotional interactions are functions of the heart. You borrowed the concept behind "gold" and applied it to "heart", thus, you have a heart of gold.

No one likes assholes.

Confidence

When a person is sure of themselves, sure of what they're doing, sure about what they represent.

The key difference between a confident person and an arrogant asshole is this - a confident person is what they are regardless of what you think. An arrogant asshole has to be arrogant to someone to derive their value.

Story time. There was once two little brothers playing in the yard. The shorter brother wanted to be taller and so he placed his brother in a ditch. The brother in the ditch went crying to their father who told his son - if you wish to be taller, stand on a chair, don't put your brother in the ditch.

A confident person lifts up their own virtues. They become intrinsically better at whatever it is. They learn more and become more learned. They exercise more and become stronger. They learn new skills and become more competent at XYZ. They know what their value is and are therefore confident.

An asshole may have the value, they may not. Who knows and who cares? What makes them an asshole is that they're shoving something in your face. There's a time and place for expressions of the physical ass hole, in the toilet with the door closed. Same is true for the character trait of being an asshole. Let it out in private, don't crap all over others.

Conclusion

At first glance, confidence and arrogance are often conflated. Unfortunately as a result, many men and women enter relationships with arrogant people. However, sooner or later, the stinky nature of the asshole comes to the fore. No one likes assholes, everyone likes confidence.

When doing your self introspection, work on enhancing your confidence and keep your asshole tightly closed by the sphincter. Save its expression for the privacy of your toilet.

Cheers!