Written largely for women as, as mentioned, we use an awful amount of coded language without even thinking, and this can cause a lot more drama than anyone thinks is fun!

We see discussions on female code a lot in TRP and on RP sites, but largely from the male perspective of "Look at what she does, not what she says.", not the female perspective of "What am I doing wrong? Why do I assume he's a mind-reader?! How do I stop getting misinterpreted and misinterpreting others?" So here's that post.

http://yourwifeisevolving.wordpress.com/2014/10/28/code/