F. Scott Fitzgerald’s advice to his daughter on what to look for in a man

Was reading F. Scott Fitzgerald’s letters to his daughter and came across the following piece of advice that some of you may find helpful:

“You haven’t given me much idea of — . Would he object to your working - outside the house I mean? Excluding personal charm, which I assume, and the more conventional virtues which go with success in business, is he his own man? Has he any force of character? Or imagination and generosity? Does he read books? Has he any leaning toward the arts and sciences or anything beyond creature comfort and duck-shooting? In short, has he the possibilities of growth that would make a lifetime with him seem attractive? These things don’t appear later - they are either there latently or they will never be there at all.”