Hello everyone! First time posting in this sub. I was raised pretty red pill due to an Asian cultural background but grew up in the West. I've been really enjoying reading the posts!
I'm seeking some advice. I'm currently in a relationship with an incredible red pill man although it's quite new (only three months). I'm 27, he's 33. He's extremely busy with work/business/travel but I keep myself occupied when he's not around with exercise, reading and spending time with friends.
My question is about my friends. We are living abroad right now in a country where the majority of expats are couples in their mid/late-30's and families. It's a bit hard to socialize with them due to schedules so I've made friends with some single women.
Except they are the masculine/feminist type women. I value their friendship because they're always so willing to spend time with me but I'm having difficulty managing their strong personalities, negativity, self-absorption, man-hating mindsets. Not to mention, they're all overweight/obese while I'm quite careful to keep my figure.
I already feel terrible spreading my judgment online. But I'm anxious to spend so much time with these non-red pill women because their aura really affects me - I'm generally pretty soft-spoken, reserved and playful but it's always quashed by these women since I feel I have to fight to say something around them. However, since we're expats it's already difficult to make friends especially with women my age.
With one girl I've made plans to go travel with her to India (this was before I met my boyfriend) but I'm not looking forward to it, to be honest... I would rather travel with my boyfriend. She's the type of woman to redeem her single life with travel and I really hope not to be like that.
Any thoughts? Am I being too judgmental? These ladies are happy for me and my relationship so they're not telling me to drop my boyfriend or anything. But sometimes it's difficult to be around them although they're loyal to me as friends. Advice?
Many thanks :)