I know this is completely subjective from person to person, relationship to relationship -- but that's what makes it discussion-worthy!

I guess some things that would be on the list would be:

  • Not swearing

  • Doing makeup/hair

  • N count

  • Homecooked meals

  • Cleaning the house

  • Exercising regularly

  • Being a good hostess

Obviously this is a very incomplete list so add whatever you see fit. For some ladies it's going to be "oh I don't wear make up" and others will say "my SO is the chef of the house". It's definitely not about what's right or wrong, I'm just thought we could share where you place the most value on your identity as an an RPW!