Further convinced that being a good woman to your man is unstated social clout for them.

dadudenines · 2021-11-30T20:38:34+00:00

This is an important point to gaining commitment. A woman sort of represents the more personal side of her mate. If they are argumentative, dress bad, look dumpy, etc. it is not a confidence builder for sure after those work events. From what I see, guys do selectively leave certain wives out of work events. I'm not gonna get into the patterns, but it is obvious who stays home and why.

LateralThinker13 · 2021-11-30T21:15:52+00:00

it made me realize even more that men really do benefit from extra respect when their wives are quality wives.

There's an old saying that is very relevant here: "Privates shouldn't marry, Sergeants should marry, and Officers must marry."

All_Lurk_No_Post365 · 2021-11-30T22:46:58+00:00

I wish more women knew how much of a social boost their men get when their friends/family/coworkers/clients see them with a good woman treating him respectfully. It's one of the ultimate status symbols and earns us tremendous respect from all of the other men in our life: boss, coworkers, family, friends etc..... This is especially true in today's western culture where wives/gfs all make stupid jabs and jokes about their men and the guys have to just sit there and laugh it off while dying inside.

Side note; if you treat your man respectfully in public he will love and cherish you forever.

JustaTcup · 2021-12-01T05:19:00+00:00

"I also thought that it is perhaps more important as the years go on that once you’ve got the clothes and grooming down pat, the social value of being inwardly kind, able to truly listen, and be able to help others is what sets you apart from the rest."

This is lovely. Thank you for placing it.

I think most of us probably get the clothes and grooming by the time we finish HS, but it's really the rest of us that has to grow to be of value, especially in today's world where there is so much that's trying to deter us from being good people. We have to keep working not only against these forces but also in-tune with our own growth to be the kindest and most giving we can each be and to listen to others so that we may even better hear our own selves.

Praexology · 2021-12-03T18:06:10+00:00

Further convinced that being a good woman to your man is unstated social clout for them.

Not to be pedantic about this, but using marriage as a vehicle to drive up your social standing has long since been a known decision.

You even see this in the old testament.

Proverbs 31: 20, 23

"She opens her hand to the poor and reaches out her hands to the needy."

and

"Her husband is known in the gates when he sits among the elders of the land."

This is literally talking about a woman bolstering her husbands name through her good works, kindness, gentleness and femininity.

Calm-Difference-3826 · 2021-12-09T10:49:17+00:00

Men need us to make them shine, all polished surfaces need the light!

rosesonthefloor · 2021-12-01T18:17:16+00:00

Yes, I love this! Thank you for sharing it.

My boyfriend works for his family business, and it comes with certain responsibilities to uphold a certain standard for the family.

The fact that he wants me by his side for those events means a lot to me, and of course I do everything I can to make sure he knows that a) I have his back and will support him and b) that he can trust me in those scenarios to reflect well on him.

Too often we think of ourselves as individuals (which we are) but as part of a couple, we are also a part of a unit, and each reflects on the other, for good or bad.

Being the kind of woman that he can count on is a very important quality in a partnership.

Luscious-Grass · 2021-12-01T12:09:03+00:00

Yes. And this is why in 2021, men DO care about a woman's career. Men gain clout from having a good-looking, feminine, and yes professionally successful (but not too successful) wife. It's not for the resource provisioning, it's for the status.

Similarly, the body size preferred by men is ALSO variable and based on what is currently considered high status.

Humans are pretty interesting.

Hornyonion · 2021-11-30T22:50:29+00:00

Do you think that all these men with the bimbos and the silicon girlsnon their side show them to the world thinking "Look at my gorgeous wife? How much I respect her!"

NO!

It is more like" Look at my new toy! Do you have one of these? "

Ofcourse you add value to your mans life and he is proud that you are by his side and you are not

Busting his balls in public Create unnecessary drama Berate him Undermine him

You treat him with respect THE SAME WAY you treat your girlfriend Mary when you go out with her

ZombiFelineTuba · 2021-12-03T04:06:05+00:00

So they should stop then because clout is bad

BurnDownTheMission68 · 2021-12-21T14:59:35+00:00

A thin and pretty wife is something any man would be proud of.

girlwithasidecar · 2021-12-01T22:24:17+00:00

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Title	Further convinced that being a good woman to your man is unstated social clout for them.
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Date	November 30, 2021 8:28 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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