I know most of you are married or otherwise partnered but more for the single women, when you've gone out and your friends got more attention, did it bother you? I don't mean a one-off situation where she got more attention from men and then the next time, you get more attention.

If this is/was a habitual occurrence, how did you react? Did it erode at your self-esteem? Did it bother you? Not bother you? Were YOU the one who had the spotlight on?

And I'd rather not hear the Barney after-school advice about "everyone is beautiful!". Yes, everyone is beautiful in their own way but fact of the matter is, some women are going to be treated as and seen as more beautiful than others, especially in certain locations. It also depends highly on the beauty standards of where you live and the demographic of the establishments you're attending.