But when you stop looking and are more relaxed with your life, someone you absolutely like just pops into your life out of nowhere? I used ro think this was a cliche, but it is valid in my case.

Just curious if any of you has experienced this.

It applies to me. If I try and actively seek out a man by signing up to online dating or even messaging guys I find interesting on the Internet, it just doesn't work out in the end. Either I don't like them physically speaking, or we have completely different views or I have that nagging feeling that it's just not right.

But when I stop entirely and mind my own way, it seems that life somehow brings me the best person ever that I wouldn't even dream of.