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Hey y'all I'm new to this lifestyle but I tried making simple food for my boyfriend and it was so rewarding

Pr1mus_Sucks
July 5, 2021
190 upvotes
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I honestly don't know how to cook much yet, but I know of some simple foods that he likes that I am capable of making until I get better at it, like mac and cheese, etc... Well tonight I was making corn for a snack, and I boiled a few extra ears of corn for him. And when we sat down I was low-key watching him to see how much butter and salt he put on his, so that I would know how to prepare it for him next time. And I watched him DEVOUR all this corn on the cob and he didn't say a word the whole time, just completely devoured it like a dinosaur and actually looked SUPER HANDSOME and cute while doing it. When he was done he was just like "that was amazing, I love you" and I thought my heart was gonna explode <3 I like making stuff for him, I dunno why I didn't before. I just never really thought to learn how. Thankful for this subreddit's existence, thanks for coming to my Ted Talk lol. God Bless

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Title Hey y'all I'm new to this lifestyle but I tried making simple food for my boyfriend and it was so rewarding
Author Pr1mus_Sucks
Upvotes 190
Comments 14
Date July 5, 2021 11:17 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit /r/RedPillWomen
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[–]ninetyfiverskydiver 35 points36 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Awww this is so wholesome and sweet! There’s something about preparing something with your hands + imagination and seeing it meet a need and a want for someone else that feels so special!

[–]DoctorWhoHS 14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why does this sound like poetry?

[–]tirednurse969 25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Those are the moments that will have me cooking ALL DAY for my man, and with a smile on both of our faces. This is a beautiful story. Enjoy the process darling! Thank you for sharing! 🥰

[–]ReeGod 38 points39 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Good for you! Men love a woman who can cook.

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If you want to learn more cooking recipes or slowly advance your cooking skills, there are a number of quick and easy tutorials on YouTube from Gordon Ramsay and Jamie Oliver.

[–]GoogleCensorsAreBad 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Adam Ragusea is an excellent person for learning to cook basics to advanced dishes.

He explains why we do things in order to teach us the chemistry behind them.

I watch his videos religiously despite being an relatively advanced cook(line and prep experience).

Gordon Ramsey is an excellent chef in his own right but you need some culinary knowledge before attempting most of his recipes because he doesn’t hold your hand at all in his vids.

Jamie Oliver doesn’t teach you to cook independently, he teaches you to successfully recreate his recipes without more information on how to adapt them and apply their principles elsewhere.

[–]giving_hearts 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I love this, thank you for sharing! I love to be a nurturing person in my relationship with my boyfriend, but we used to eat out a lot and I felt awful when he would pay a lot of money for food I figured I could make at home. Recently I started being more intentional and making dinners for him, and he loves it! Proof that men appreciate being taken care of in the home, even in simple ways like cooking and cleaning :)

[–]All_Lurk_No_Post365 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is awesome, most women really have no idea how special it feels when a woman cooks for us.

[–]coolbusinessman 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

So many men would absolutely love a partner like this. I will say though, you don’t need to know how to cook big elaborate dishes to win him over with his stomach. Simple dishes that are quick and easy but get the job done are great. This is a perfect example of that. Good job OP

[–]a_lightintheforest 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I love this. I committed to learning how to cook from scratch well during the pandemic and now I literally love to cook for my man, it's just so gratifying to watch him love my cooking. And others too! My little sister (I say little, she's 24 lol) came over a week or so ago and when I asked what she wanted for dinner she asked me to make her "my chicken parm" and then went on for like 5 minutes about how it's her favorite meal and how she craves it. Just makes me feel good, and I'm glad it makes you feel good too!! ❤️

Also if I may make a suggestion on two books that helped me SO MUCH with learning to cook! First is “Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat” by Samin Nosrat (it’s like a cooking text book with some amazing recipes!) and second is “The Complete America’s Test Kitchen TV Show Cookbook” it’s the best! Every recipe I’ve made from it has come out good.

[–]nosleepincrooklyn 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I love this so much

[–]amadexodus 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

My last relationship was also my first serious relationship, and I learned very early on how much I loved taking care of him by cooking for him, making the bed while he got ready for work (he has a physically demanding construction job with shifts starting @ 5am), getting or making gifts for him and his family, etc. What shocked me was how much more rewarding it felt to be doing that for him than to be a badass woman who put myself and my career first.

If you're like me, I think you'll learn that for the right guy, us ladies would crawl over broken glass to be able to nurture him, give him a home and food, and be his soft place to land.

[–]All_Lurk_No_Post365 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is so encouraging to read; now the question I have is what type of man inspires a woman to "crawl over broken glass to be able to nurture him, give him a home and food, and be his soft place to land"????

[–]Nauseabundomundo 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

First time looking at this sub and I find this… so nice 🥰 I really know the way you feel

[–]TreeElA14L 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Girls like you give a nigga hope. Not many women want to be wives today ❤

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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