Hello, I'm not exactly the target demographic for this sub but I read it anyway. I've been single for the vast, vast majority of my life. I'm also 6'7" and I have marfans syndrome. People frequently say stuff on here like, "Just be pleasant! Any woman who is pleasant and not a total naggy shrew can find a BF if she wants one!" Does anyone consciously think about how being an average looking 5'5" female probably helps in dating moreso than attitude? Like, if you were in my position, being that tall and having a disfiguring disorder...do you think that you could find a boyfriend just by being 'pleasant'? And I know that there are very tall women who get married, etc. But I feel like I constantly beat myself up when I read this sub because I'm like 'Oh I'm always single and don't want to be but I can't find anyone so it must 100% be my fault because I'm not pleasant enough.' I mean, I literally have faulty genes. Just curious what any of you would do if you were in my position or if anyone has any idea what it's like to look different from 99.9999% of the population.