I'm a 31 year old reasonably attractive woman. However, there is a looming issue in the background of our sex life being on the decline, and us trying to work on this in sex therapy (including me reading FW).
My husband and I were at the beach the other day and he pointed out a sexy woman. We point out attractive people to one another occasionally, men too. She was young, thin, big boobs in a red bikini. I agreed she was attractive, but I felt very vulnerable at that moment. I asked him to reassure me I'm attractive to him too. He answered, "your swimsuit is nice".
I don't really know how to process this and would love your opinion.
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