How to be a better wife

ughifeellikealoser · 2021-02-24T23:19:55+00:00

You’re living my dreammm scenario. Some of the things I’m so excited about being able to do once I can quit working full time are: - focus on my physical fitness and be able to elevate/dedicate more time to working on my body - learn more about nutrition and cooking and continue improving my skills with a variety of clean/healthy but also delicious meals, snacks etc. for us and our future family - improve my gardening skills, and specifically use permaculture principles to grow fresh food for us to eat as naturally/organically as possible (not to mention cut back food costs long-term) - in the meantime, dedicate time to connecting with local farmers/co-ops to limit the amount of grocery store food in our diets - my ultimate goal is between improving my own “from scratch” cooking and baking skills, and growing/locally sourcing our food, our reliance on processed/packaged and even just mass-produced foods is kept at an absolute minimum - transform to more sustainable housekeeping practices (basically limiting plastic in the home especially single use plastic) ——> those items sound “hippy dippy” but coming from someone who has made major diet/lifestyle changes, the difference in quality of life cannot be overstated - get involved in the community and volunteer my time towards causes near to my heart while networking locally

Just a few ideas! No idea if any of that resonates with you but I hope you find some ways to spend your time that are fulfilling and nurture your relationship.

The-RPA-Guy · 2021-02-24T22:49:07+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking, what caused the switch in your thinking to go from feeling resentful and jealous to looking forward to pleasing him and really owning your role?

JulesB954 · 2021-02-25T01:23:19+00:00

Encourage him to spend time with his friends from time to time, men love this as some are afraid to ask for time away from the home

spotted_kat · 2021-02-25T01:54:53+00:00

As your kids get older and more independent there are really two opportunities that I see: 1) your personal development and fulfillment, which can overlap with your roles as wife, mother, and home maker, or possible interests or passions outside of those roles. What additional skills, activities, hobbies could interest you and fulfill you? Being a good wife to me means being a happy well rounded individual. Will your world come crashing down and feel devoid of purpose when you’re nest is empty? Be thinking about those things now, plant seeds you can harvest for the future. 2) More time to prioritize your relationship with your husband. What activities do you like to do together? Do you have joint hobbies or interests?

People forget that raising a family is just one season of life! What else do you want to incorporate into your life now and into the future?

theshe28 · 2021-02-25T14:47:10+00:00

You are doing it! Don’t worry about doing more, sit back and relax and enjoy your life like your husband said! Men want their wives to be happy, kind, and to just appreciate them. Your husband works so hard to give you and your family a good life, all he wants is to witness his wife and children enjoying the life he has given them. Do some research on feminine energy and play that up, it will create sexy polarity in your relationship. Feminine energy is “being” energy and “receiving” energy. The opposite of that, masculine energy, is “doing” energy. Stop “doing” so much and focus on receiving with joy and pleasure all the things your husband has provided for you. He is already happy with you and tells you that. Don’t create problems. Listen to your husband. He is probably just thrilled you stopped complaining about the amazing life he has has been trying to give you.

dedemo202 · 2021-02-25T16:28:34+00:00

This is dream life for me lol

RP_Bear9 · 2021-02-25T18:34:26+00:00

Cooking and preparing wonderful meals is among the most important thing for men, in addition what you are already focusing on. Find out what he truly enjoys to eat, then become a master at that.

Jack-Hole · 2021-02-24T23:21:50+00:00

Sorry to be crass, but we really want 2 things, full bellies, and empty nuts, anything else is just gravy. Again, apologies for the crassness.

GinnyMorningstar · 2021-02-25T08:46:05+00:00

You could focus on things that will improve your family’s lives as a side effect like exploring your own spirituality and interests. When you are happy and fulfilled your family will have a good role model of human worth and how to look after themselves

emmalai85 · 2021-02-24T22:40:07+00:00

Ask him.

Title	How to be a better wife
Author	smokey_lace
Upvotes	88
Comments	22
Date	February 24, 2021 7:50 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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