When I was still dating I had plenty of guys who were absolutely crazy about me because of a few things I did/do. Friends who are very much in their feminine energy also are very popular, even if they haven't met the right one yet. It really doesn't matter how beautiful or hot you are, if you manage to do these things guys will absolutely love you and not only want to bang you.
- Be vulnerable
Sounds like weird advice but a man needs to connect to your heart. I had some horrible things happen to me in my teenage years but I noticed that when I disclosed this to a man he felt much more connected and protective of me. I had more than once a man confess his love to me the same night I told him this.
You don't have to have a horrible trauma to make this work. Be open with your emotions, if you are sad don't hide it! When a man asks you how you are tell him how you feel.
Imagine you get a 'how was your day?' text from a man you are dating for a short while, respond with something that made you feel something that day. It's best to keep it positive if you aren't in a commited relationship
Ex. 'I went to the beach with my dog today, I always feel so free when I walk by the shore!' or 'I was a little under the weather, so I spend some time under a blanket today, it felt so cosy and warm.' Make him feel what you feel.
- Be receiving
I'm not necessarily talking about gifts. I'm talking about any form of receiving. The most important one being energy. Masculine energy is forward moving, giving, thinking, taking care of business, feminine energy is being and receiving.
A good way to start is to physically move back in your chair, lean back and let your date lead the conversation. Don't think about what amazingly funny thing you want to tell him after he is done speaking, listen to what he is saying for a change.
- Don't try to make things happen
That's the man's job. When he sends you a text that's fine, if he doesn't that's also fine. Be in a headspace of seeing what will happen (this doesn't mean not having boundaries btw) but don't be desperate to have a relationship after one date.