How to move past my NSFW Twitter?

noonespecial333 · 2021-01-04T08:41:53+00:00

Quit while you're ahead if this is something you're not sure about. If you're not comfortable with people knowing what you do, this isn't a good career for you. I used to be acquaintances with a woman who had a popular OnlyFans and it's a lot of work. In order to make a career out of it you have dedicate a lot of time to it and constantly reply to men and make them feel like you care about them. You also have to be okay with the chance that your parents could find out about it. Someone can easily screenshot you and send it to people you know. You being hesitant is enough evidence that this isn't for you. I'm not trying to moralize at all, but you're only 18, try to find another way to make money. This isn't your only option, if you don't want to do it you don't have to.

Hung_White_Knight · 2021-01-05T02:13:20+00:00

Your mental health is more important than $300. Your mental health is more important than $3000. If you need the money so badly, a minimum wage job makes at minimum $400 a week in most 1st world countries, and if you look a bit, I guarantee you could find one that is decent.

LateralThinker13 · 2021-01-05T04:34:11+00:00

Honestly, most women don't make much at OF. Like most porn activities (don't kid yourself, it may be softcore but it's porn) only a very, very select few make good money at it. The rest just degrade themselves for pocket change. I know a few women who are successful in the industry, and they treat it like a job - hours, expenses, finances, tax breaks - the works.

For $300, you're better off mowing lawns. It's cleaner, honest work. That's like 6 lawns properly done (YMMV).

orangerose18 · 2021-01-04T21:22:53+00:00

My mom is a nurse and makes $80 an hour. More than just the grossness of it all, think about how much time you’re wasting chasing pennies instead of getting an actual secure job.

JadedByEntropy · 2021-01-05T03:25:57+00:00

You already know you dont want it and its not good for you. Be the responsible adult and listen to yourself.

idreamofdewi · 2021-01-08T01:29:20+00:00

I’m just a lurker here, and you’ve gotten a lot of great advice already, so I won’t be redundant.

I will say that I’m concerned about your boyfriend. I would be wary of any man who would be okay with their woman doing sex work, even if it’s “just for the money”. Pictures are one thing, but physical encounters are another. It sounds like he would have been willing to let you do that if it had worked out for you (I’m so glad that it didn’t work out for you).

Just something to think about, but I would regard this as a major red flag.

lovin44 · 2021-01-05T18:55:22+00:00

If you’ve done a pretty solid job of being anonymous, delete the account and go. Please don’t do anything that you’re not comfortable with. It sounds like your boyfriend is aware of what you were up to, and is alright with it. He will likely be just as alright when you tell him it was not what you thought and is leaving you unhappy.

I did online sex work for a couple of years, and there was no OF, and it was only the beginning of popularizing multiple income streams in the industry (paid private Snapchats, custom vids, etc) so it was really quite competitive. I was honestly pretty good at it, and made a generous income. I had a performer name, but my image was quite visible and I’d be invited to conventions as well as award shows.

Fast forward a handful of years later, and I now work a high income job in the biggest company in the country that pertains to my job’s industry. I live with my boyfriend and our pets, and no one on the streets has any clue who I am. This will likely be you one day too, but with more ease. $300 is a lot when you’ve got nothing else, I understand that, but it’s worth nothing if you hate every minute you spent earning it.

money-_-sun · 2021-01-09T04:46:15+00:00

I'm a young guy and if I found out my girl did something like this I would break up her.

Wateringtherabbits · 2021-01-07T05:15:28+00:00

Take out extra loans. While I wouldn’t normally advocate for this, if you’re so hard up for $300 that you would destroy your mental health, then it’s worth it to get a loan. And get a job. None of this is worth what you’re feeling.

You’re 18 and you fell under the influence of social media. You made a mistake. We all make mistakes. You’re allowed to make mistakes. You are allowed to move pass this and you can move pass this. This situation isn’t working for you, but guess what? You can stop, right now. It’s time to accept that this isn’t working for you and that you need to stop for your mental health.

I think you should seek counseling with your university and STICK WITH IT. You need to process this and maybe the counselors will have resources through the university to help you with your financial issues.

But bottom line, it’s time to quit this because it’s not making you feel good.

Drpepperdream · 2021-01-11T18:30:14+00:00

Take that $300 and invest in yourself. Spend it on a trade school like real estate and start a better money making opportunity. Something you can even do part-time while saving money and experience for your real dream job or education perhaps? Turn this negative into a positive, you can’t undo it so try using what income you’ve created to invest in a more stable one.

newtoroo · 2021-01-05T05:16:11+00:00

I’d say you’re toeing the line of cheating, if you’re not already there yet. Does your boyfriend know you keep random guys entertained with pictures of your boobs? I know you want words of encouragement but sometimes you need a little tough love. In a reverse situation, would you be okay with you boyfriend doing this for some side cash? $30 for an ass wiggle is shameful; not simply because of the act itself but because your intimacy shouldn’t come with a price tag.

omahonnelly · 2021-01-17T00:31:06+00:00

I follow the practices of a community that helps with goal setting for business and personal efforts. They have you start by picking your three main core values. Mine were Love, Wholeheartedness and Integrity. You keep these in mind when you have a hard time making decisions. I was really, really lonely and considered dating a married man, which normally is an obvious bad choice. That night I looked at my core values and decided I'd rather be lonely and still have my integrity.

Maybe an exercise like that will help you move on.

MirriMazDuur · 2021-01-04T13:36:55+00:00

I have done camming myself and quit about a year and a half ago. I still work in the adult industry in photography, in a professional environment and I know exactly how you feel. All women are tempted to make money with their looks, so it's no wonder you have tried it too. We cannot exactly do construction work, go on a fishing boat or do other jobs which men can do when money is tight. Familes or societies treat young women like they are men, though we aren't, expecting the same financial independence and abilities. Of course women resort to some sort of sex work (they have since the dawn of time). In other words, there is nothing wrong with you or your morals for dipping your fingers in it. What should you do next? Quit. The women I know who make bank on this sort of thing work in studios, with trainers who tells them how to speak, set their prices, who tell them how scammers look like and how to file a dmca claim. A woman, alone, with a camera and a twitter account has slim chances of making it big. Risking for the whole world to see your intimates, the mental exhaustion and time spent is worth it if you can earn thousands of dollars per month. For 300? Not so much. I am sorry but the industry is so big that you either need to go full pro or just abandon it.

JSBelle · 2021-01-06T01:14:06+00:00

You’re young. You can do whatever makes sense to you. Don’t be hard on yourself. Most young women attempt to capitalize on their looks in some way. Focus on a real career and/or business. Develop marketable skills. You’ll thank yourself later. I’m late 30s.

I can tell you that I spent a fair bit of time on similar things in my 20s. In hindsight, I would’ve spent more time on my long term vision and kept other things as a small hobby at best.

throwawayisathing · 2021-01-04T11:37:28+00:00

I’m sorry you’ve ended up in a situation like this. You are not a slut, you had your reasons and now you’ve realised it was a mistake - and that’s okay. You write that you feel disgusting and you know it’s wrong in your heart. That is enough for me to tell you to stop. If a girl friend told you this or even your boyfriend about anything they were doing, wouldn’t you tell them to stop? I completely understand that there are perks as the money and the support from a lot of followers - but it’s not worth it.

If I can be completely honest, I would also feel like I was almost taking away something so very delicate and precious from my boyfriend by allowing other people to see what only he sees. Is it worth the 30 dollars each time? I would say no.

I’m sure you can find another job if the money is tight :) Best wishes

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Title	How to move past my NSFW Twitter?
Author	asmallcracker
Upvotes	13
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Date	January 4, 2021 8:19 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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