Kristal Garcia is doing a series called, 100 Days on how to treat men right and lead with your heart in relationship and daily interactions with men and today's post is a really good one.

Men are problem solvers. Your boyfriend/husband is protective of you, cares about you and hates to see you distressed. He wants to keep you safe and wants to help you. When you come to him consistently with the same problem but refuse to let him help you solve it, you’re only going to frustrate him.

Edited to add that her other 13 posts in the series are also really good and she has an interview here. She is a sex worker (who better to ask about pleasing men!) who has gone from feminist to men's rights activist.

Here are a few of her other posts if you need a good dose of wisdom!

1: Know the difference between nurturing a man and acting like his mother

2: See the man before you

6: When he comes home from work, give him space for an hour to unwind

7: Tell him how much he means to you

11: Trust him

12: Be sexy