I will never move in with someone before marriage ever again and wish I had followed that particular redpillwomen advice and am sorry I didn’t.

If you’re thinking of moving in with your boyfriend before marriage I would strongly caution against doing so. Even if you have had a conversation that you’ll get engaged shortly after I’d wait until there’s a ring on your finger and a date set. Or you could end up in the situation I am in where breaking up is harder and more painful than it needs to be. Please learn from me.

In the meantime, any advice on how to navigate my limbo-ness while I look for a new place and move out? Has anyone here gone through this? How did you handle it? I should also mention my boyfriend has two teenage children from a previous marriage that ended 7 years ago so I am currently living with them too.