Firstly, i'm very happy and thankful my husband has a job and is a very hard worker, and a very kind person! I believe it's to a bit of a fault as his boss is taking advantage of him horribly, makes him be on call 24/7, works him nonstop so on his weekend (currently one day a week) he is too exhausted to do anything. His boss is greatly underpaying him, and is an absolute jerk to him on top of all this. Without my husband his boss's business would crumble within a week and I say let it - I hate this boss/job and my husband knows it. Because I can't STFU about it.

My husband has an amazing resume and I believe could easily find work paying more for less hours, one where he isn't constantly stressed or treated like crap. His work stress is crippling his ability to do his hobbies or see friends, not to mention his sleep schedule and health. We also have a good amount in savings and I work full time - if he walked off the job we would be in no trouble. However he wants to see the job through and keep working there, I guess he does not think it is as bad as I do. I know it is his choice and not mine - and I am realizing I am nagging him about it and pissing him off.

I feel like this job is in a way ruining his life and well-being, I get so worked up thinking about it.

When he comes home from work and starts talking about whatever horrible thing his boss has done now - I do a lot of "you could have all this free time if you leave to look for a different job- and we have the savings!" "with your amazing resume you could find something way better in a week!" and "I want you to be happy!" - All true but I know I am trying to persuade him to do what I want him to and it is just nagging at its core! And he just wants to vent about work - he is not asking my advice.

Every time I do this I feel like i'm word vomiting and can't control my nagging!! Any helpful advice or similar stories are appreciated, im really struggling with this one and need to shut up when my husband vents about work!