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I really wish I could meet like minded women.

redandpearls
August 6, 2019
96 upvotes
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I'm just reaching a time in my life where my friends and I are growing apart due to different ideals and places in life, and I really wish I could make friends with some of you fabulous ladies.

I'm not too sure where to meet other young-ish (20s and early 30s, nothing against other women, I just think this is the group I'd have the most in common with) women who understand this way of being.

If only we could meet each other without the whole doxxing problem. :(

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Title I really wish I could meet like minded women.
Author redandpearls
Upvotes 96
Comments 41
Date August 6, 2019 5:01 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit /r/RedPillWomen
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/i-really-wish-i-could-meet-like-minded-women.248597
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Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/cmm9dc/i_really_wish_i_could_meet_like_minded_women/
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Comments

[–]StroopyLoopy34 points35 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

Agreed! I live in the bay area in California, so I completely understand how you feel

[–]redandpearls 1 points [recovered]  (6 children) | Copy Link

Oh goodness! I feel for you. I live in the Appalachians so it's not terribly hard to find people who kind of agree with this mentality, but it's hard to find them in my area.

[–]covfefeismydrug6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Off topic, but I love Appalachia. I am from the central Appalachia area but had to move because my husband got a job away. There’s no place like the mountains!

I found the same thing. I was in a college town so there was a “progressive” pocket which made it hard to find like-minded people. I had friends but not ones that I could talk about RPW ideas without them thinking I was off my rocker!

[–]sensitivitea 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy Link

I live in the same area and have the same problem :(

[–]redandpearls 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

...man, I wish I could ask where, because if we were close, we could hang out!

I wish RPW could have some sort of meet up or something.

[–]birthrice10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You could private message this person

[–]redandpearls2 Stars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

...I'm not going to lie, I didn't even think about this until I saw this post. Thank you!

[–]Compostable-Account4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

bay reppin

[–]StroopyLoopy4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Username checks out. Keepin it eco-friendly ☆

[–]meissnerscorpuscle1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hello fellow Bay Area rpw!! 😄

[–]beaversinthewashroom 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

I live in the Bay Area too!! Do you think women would attend a meet up?

[–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

We don't allow the sub to advertise meetups. There are doxxing risks and there are real world risks because you don't know who will show if you openly advertise something like this.

[–]NewMindRedPill1 Star0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Same!

[–]honeymintx 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

So do I! Just moved out here about a month ago.

[–]StroopyLoopy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well welcome to the CA bay! I've been here my entire life actually

[–]IreneCarter9243 points44 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

I'm living in NYC for the time being. I've made a friend or two here. When I tell them how I want to be a housewife and serve my husband, they look at me like I said "the earth is flat" or something.

[–]BlueBlackRedP7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Me too. Even my friends who are married with kids would find the idea of this outdated and offensive, and hardly affordable. But I grew up rural before moving here, so it's more tied into my roots. Can't wait to leave the city.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There are lots of closet RPWs in NYC - I’m one of them! I consider myself a socialist and a feminist but I still believe in traditional gender roles. Look at people’s actions, not their words.

[–]chante___14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Same, I have plenty of housewife friends, but most are liberal feminists. I just keep off of touchy subjects. I do enjoy my friendship with them even if we think differently.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Same here. From Sweden and I haven't met any RPW here. Alot of feminists tho.

[–]WhySoOverHeated2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Same here, from Denmark. I think there are very few RPW in Europe, but it makes me happy knowing there are at least some! 👏 I do have one friend with similar thoughts whom I met through the danish BDSM community which has been the only place where I've felt comfortable sharing my thought of being submissive in my relationship. I think RP thinking for women is very taboo in Denmark.

[–]LateralThinker133 Stars4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The same vetting techniques that work for men work for female friends. When you are in a mixed setting, find the woman who is quieter, well-put together, with kind eyes and a smile. Avoid the flighty, opinionated feminists and woke millennials. Etc.

[–]rthayerf2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Try going to a religious community.

[–]AnnaAerials4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Sigh same. Church has been my lifeline meeting likeminded women

[–]redandpearls2 Stars[S] 4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, I haven't tried that. I enjoy church, but I usually attend a service that older people prefer, not the younger crowd. But maybe I'll have to give the other service a go.

[–]AnnaAerials1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

In saying that, the older crowd isn’t too bad either. Most of the women my age I’ve befriended are married (like myself) but have kids. I don’t have kids at the moment. But besides that we are at the same stage of life.

I’ve never been the girl to have many girlfriends but being able to message a lady from church to pray for me or to go to dinner with our husbands and have fellowship has been amazing :) I would definitely encourage you to go

[–]redandpearls2 Stars[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

That's amazing! Honestly, I love so many of the older ladies I've met in church. They've always got such great advice, and they're full of kindness. Honestly, such great role models.

There are a few that I enjoy grabbing the occasional coffee with, or chatting with when I see around town. I should take my relationships with those women more seriously.

[–]AnnaAerials0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree. Shallow relationships are easy and spontaneous but empty, worth while friendships require time put aside and can be inconvenient to meet, but are crucial. I’m excited for you! I’ll say a prayer.

[–]RemoteMeal3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Same here 🙋🏻‍♀️

[–]redandpearls2 Stars[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's the worst!

[–]ragnarockette5 Stars1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I live in a liberal city and have had no problems at all. Some of our friends are housewives, some are partners at law firms, and some at bohemian artists - everyone gets along great.

[–]Maschalismos1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Do RP women really fear doxxing? What would be said? “Hey everyone, this woman is somewhat conservative!! Let’s ruin her life!”?

[–]DrpeppernPBcups2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Same here, I’ve tried to bring up the subjects of RPW and they don’t get it. They are liberal and I feel like I’m from another planet. Church is a good idea.

[–]LordDunderhead2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Same! I recently moved from Europe to Sydney (to live with my spouse) and it's tough living in a massive liberal city where hookups and throwaway tinder culture are ubiquitous and almost unavoidable. I don't remember it being that bad in my smaller hometown.

If anyone happens to live in/travel to Syd, please hit me up! Always happy to make new mates. I'm 24F

[–]katarinaantonia0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I live in Sydney! I'd love to link up :)

[–]valleycupcake1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Idk if you are religious, but I go to a conservative (not evangelical) church and pretty much all my peers are like minded.

[–]redandpearls2 Stars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's fair! I enjoy my church, but I might have to start going to the services geared toward the younger crowd to find some new friends!

[–]D2bwolf53 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy Link

What is this mind set u ladies r referring to I still dont get the red pill concept

[–]dabadeedabadaa4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Read the wiki!

[–]D2bwolf53 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

So i read a good chunk of it you ladies want undying loyalty? Commitment

[–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl[M] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

RPW is not here to answer men's questions.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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