I am interested in establishing a regular date night with my husband. It is something that we have never done in the past because we were both too exhausted from work and the demands of raising a family. Now we have less responsibility and more free time and I think it would benefit our marriage to get out and do new things together. The truth is we have fallen into a rut and have become such homebodies that we don’t have much to talk about outside of the mundane issues of everyday existence. Furthermore, we no longer have a circle of friends because all of our original friends have divorced. We are not at all social anymore. I would appreciate your advice on taking steps to make this happen. Do you have a regular date night? How did you make it a part of your relationship? Do you let your SO make the arrangements? If so, how do you manage this?