Hi everyone I am new to the forum and reddit in general so bear with me. I am 23 years old and have recently gone through a break up. Two weeks ago, my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years broke up with me because our relationship had no trust. Since the beginning of our relationship I have been friendly with my high school exes (I bought into the "men and women can be besties" idea) and prior to meeting my boyfriend, I saw no problem with this. I honestly have no feelings for my exes and talk to them pretty rarely so I didn't think it would be an issue. Yeah, I know, stupid right? My boyfriend expressed concern about it but I always assured him I was over them. Finally though, he reached his breaking point. Six months ago he became very angry at me for talking to my ex boyfriend and though he knows I wasn't unfaithful, it makes him extremely uncomfortable. I then decided a relationship with my exes wasn't worth it and have not spoken to either of my exes in 6 months. Even though I have made the change, my boyfriend feels he still can't trust me. He frequents TRP and it finally convinced him to leave me. I feel really stupid for not understanding why what I did was wrong. I've been reading RPW and I now understand that my boyfriend should have been the only man in my life. This guy is a great man that I want in my life but I let my feminist ideas get in the way. Now I fear it's too late for us. Is there anything I can do now?