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I've been trying to increase my femininity. I wore perfume for the first time two days ago, and my male friend commented on how nice it was.

February 24, 2020
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I am definitely wearing perfume again! Every time I go out!

Me (20f) and my two friends were planning on grabbing a late lunch together a couple of days ago. One of my friends, 19f, was late, while the other, 19m, was waiting with me (he had driven me there). Earlier that morning I'd put on the perfume that I'd been gifted for my 20th birthday. I've been trying to get more into femininity and that type of thing so I thought I might give it a go.

Call me stupid, but I thought that perfume/scent wasn't really a big deal. I thought people wore perfume just to say "oh, I'm wearing Gucci perfume today" and not to actually smell good.

Anyways, I was standing by the store with my friend and he suddenly leans over and says, "Wow, you smell really nice." I smile and say "thanks" because I'm kind of surprised that he even noticed it. Then he walks around, stands in front of me, puts both his hands on my shoulders and leans in right by my neck and says, "Wow. What's it called?" I tell him the name of the perfume and who it's by. He says, "I love it. It's very you." And then he says, "there's this perfume I love called [perfume name]. If a girl wore that, I would literally fall in love." I laugh with him and we chat until our other friend finally arrives.

It was a real motivation for me to continue trying to embrace my feminine skills. I am still so surprised that the first-ever time I wore perfume, a guy noticed, and commented on it. Ever since then, I haven't left the house without it, no matter how much of a hurry I've been in. I'm also allowing myself more time to get ready before leaving the house. I don't wear much makeup at all, I've never used foundation. But I am putting on lipstick more often now and I love it! Makes me feel so girly. I also have three casual dresses that I'm planning to wear more often.

I'm so happy I found this sub tonight, and excited to continue improving on this. :)

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Title I've been trying to increase my femininity. I wore perfume for the first time two days ago, and my male friend commented on how nice it was.
Author squideye62
Upvotes 90
Comments 27
Date February 24, 2020 12:26 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit /r/RedPillWomen
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/ive-been-trying-to-increase-my-femininity-i-wore.339770
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[–]Danibani1337 points38 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Share the perfume you wore and the one he said he liked please. Great story.

[–]squideye62[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I wore Good Girl by Carolina Herrera, he said he loves a perfume called Panache :)

[–]MyNameIsSaifa44 points45 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Commenting because most people swallowing the pill are blind, the male friend in that story 100% wants you.

If you want him back, wear the perfume he mentioned.

[–]squideye62[S] 10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

He touched my thigh in the car on the way there, too. Yes, I think I’m blind haha. Might buy that other perfume he said he loved!

[–]MyNameIsSaifa10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Think that's about as overt a signal as you can get.

Best of luck!

[–]teaandtalk5 Stars5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

>might buy that other perfume

Only if you're really sure you're into him - that is a big signal otherwise, that you're willing to spend your resources AND change your physical attributes for him! Vet, girl, vet!

[–]85thredditaccount2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Came here to say this! OP this guy is totally into you :)

[–]FleetingWishEndorsed Contributor13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

he walks around, stands in front of me, puts both his hands on my shoulders and leans in right by my neck...

Glad that you perfume worked out. Also there is no chance he is not hitting on you.

[–]squideye62[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Lol. Thanks! He wasn’t like this when I wasn’t putting in effort. It’s crazy how fast that changed.

[–]OhNeptune_0024 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Perfume is definitely noticeable and it adds an extra element to your memory after your gone.

[–]squideye62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I had no idea! I definitely know now, though. I'm honestly so clueless when it comes to this type of thing but I've taken it upon myself to learn as it really interests me :)

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[–]squideye62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you so much! I’m going shopping in a couple of days with a girlfriend of mine who loves perfume, so I’ll check it out with her. I don’t have any deodorant (I am super new to this femininity thing) so I’m definitely buying that soon, too!

[–]ShootingDanks1 Star8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Fragrantica is a good resource for exploring the world of perfume. Remember that you can layer fragrances to create a unique scent.

[–]squideye62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow, thanks so much - the website is super helpful!

[–]kneesofthetrees1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

He totally wants you. It’s so obvious. If you’re into him too, then there ya go!

[–]squideye62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha thanks!

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[–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl[M] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Your personal preferences are not advice

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[–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl[M] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I see a lot about your girlfriend and what you like about her. We don't care what you like about your girlfriend because no one here is trying to date you. Men must participate on TRP before they come to RPW. Refocus your efforts and knock out the attitude.

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[–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Your personal preferences are not advice.

[–]lilasbaby20 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Where and how do you spray them? Skin or clothes?

[–]squideye62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Two sprays on the front of the neck, one spray on the back of the neck (so they can smell it if they give you a hug). These are both on skin.

Then one or two sprays on the inside wrist of each hand, depending on how strong I want it to be. These are also on the skin.

[–]cwizzle070 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I was much the same and still learning. Wait till you discover the hair straightener lol. My best friend in the morning!

[–]honeylacing20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

please noo not every morning!! that will absolutely wreck your hair over time, you'll regret it:-((

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