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Just married!

December 23, 2015
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Hey yall! I hope you're having a good and not extremely stressful time preparing your Christmases. I just figured I'd stop by and thank you all. I haven't been very active lately but I do still lurk around.
Anyway, L and I just got married today. He's asleep now and I'm a little too excited still. And honestly, I'm not sure we'd be here if it wasn't for your constant good advice. I'm so bad at writing down what I'm thinking because I'm thinking so many thoughts of excitement and happiness, but as I said, thank you for being awesome!
And any advice for a newlywed?

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Title Just married!
Author frozen_strawberry
Upvotes 55
Comments 44
Date December 23, 2015 11:29 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit /r/RedPillWomen
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/just-married.85856
https://theredarchive.com/post/85856
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/3y0qu0/just_married/
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[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

many congratulations!!!

i don't have any advice cuz i'm still waiting for my special day (and man!!) to come, but please stop by chat and tell us girls the fabulous details :D

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Thank you! I'll stop by the chat tomorrow because it's a little annoying to use on my phone and I don't want to produce too much light while he's asleep :)

[–]Multi_Millionaire 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You sound like a catch 😌

[–]ragnarockette5 Stars 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

And photos!!

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

OMG froz!!!! Congratulations!!

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you :D

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

What's the title of his book? It sounds like it's worth a read :)

And thank you :)

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Omg. Congrats!!! I dont have newlywed advice but keep coming back and asking if ever in doubt!!

Edit: I love the flair this sub put for this post. lol

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha I know right. I love the flair, too. Thank you to whoever put it there, and thank you :D

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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha, I don't think the tickle wars are ever going to stop between us :p and thank you! (I guess I'll edit the post for more details in a minute)

[–]Bea_Noemi 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Congratulations!!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you :)

[–]cats_or_get_out 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Congratulations! You're off to a great start!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you :)

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Congratulations! :D

I've never been married, but my mom's advice (married to my dad 34 years) to newlyweds is generally to remind both parties that they aren't perfect, and to practice compassion and self-improvement accordingly. Congrats again!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you!
The justice of peace had something along those lines in his speech which I loved. I don't even remember all of it but afterwards as we were sipping champagne he came over and talked to us about it again. And he said to never forget that we both make mistakes and to always look at how we individually went wrong and to never stop trying to improve.

[–]rpvelvetcupcake 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Congratulations! :)

Not married, but my mother always says to treat the coming days of your marriage with the same excitement and happy feelings that you had on your wedding day.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you! That sounds like really good advice :)

[–]tintedlipbalm 5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Congratulations! :D

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you :D

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Congratulations! We're enjoying a short week with some drinks so I don't really have much advice other than have fun. :)

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you :D

[–]TempestTcup 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm so happy for the both of you! This is awesome!

All you have to do is treat him like he is the most important person in your life, which he is :)

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

He really is and I couldn't ask for a better man. Thank you :)

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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you, I will, after our honeychristmas is over :p

[–]littleteafox 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Congratulations!!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you :)

[–]SoonToBeMrsHim 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Congrats girly welcome to the married lady club!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you :)

[–]TheTerrorSquadEndorsed Contributor 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

CONGRATULATIONS!!!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Aww such a sweet post. I've got no advice for you, but I do wish you well :) congratulations!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you :)

[–]IVIaskerade 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

👫👍🎉

[–]CocoaMotive 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Congratulations! My advice to my self when I was a newlywed would be; work hard, learn a trade or a skill now. Don't eat the same amount he eats just because you're eating together, you'll just gain weight. Go to church every Sunday without fail, it's more important than you realize. Appreciate your apartment now. The next two are going to be worse. Oh and have lots of amazing sex!!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha, the good thing about eating with him is that I always feel less hungry and I'm full faster, so usually he'll finish my food anyway. :)

Thank you :)

[–]chasemyers 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm having some kind of mental disconnect here. Over in TRP, all the old vanguards preach never to get married. Here in RPW, your goal is to get alphas, right? Why would an alpha want to get married?

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Pure alphas aren't marriage material. We want a nice mix of alpha and beta qualities. And sexual strategies of trp and rpw are very different.

[–]chasemyers 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Huh. Ok, thanks.

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